They say that we don’t get to choose who we fall in love with or that love comes when you’re least expecting it. While there is some truth to that, it’s not entirely accurate. Love is a choice that we make every day for ourselves and for our partners. You both need to wake up and be willing to put the effort into each other. When you take love for granted and assume it to be this magical concept that only happens by fate, you give up your power and the relationship goes stale. This is often how two people who were once madly in love fall apart.
If you’re wondering whether your partner is pulling away or if you feel like you’re the one who is falling out of love, pay attention to these signs, as confirmed by science.
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Putting Friends First
When two people are madly in love, their brain chemicals treat time together like being on drugs. They start to associate experiences shared together as a reward system that they just can’t get enough of through their serotonin and dopamine receptors. The longer they’re together, the more they’re bonded and the feelings release oxytocin, the cuddle hormone.
When one of you decides that they would rather pick friends over their partner over and over, then that’s a sign that their brain no longer associates their partner with positive feelings that feel good.