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Your Apology Needs To Be As Loud As Your Disrespect Was

5 Things Self-Respecting People Do Not Tolerate

Self-respect entails a variety of simple things that we are all capable of possessing. However, sometimes we lose focus of what it means to have self-respect for ourselves by altering our personalities to fit the mold that society has claimed to be "perfect."

Well, let me be the first to say that there is no such thing as perfect in this world, not even humans are able to be absolutely perfect.

We can still have self-respect and some of the best ways that we can achieve true self-respect is by avoiding these kinds of behaviors that do the opposite for us in the long run.

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Staying true to yourself and what you believe is right from wrong is key.

1. Going To A Job You Despise Daily

Your happiness is of the utmost importance above everything else that happens in your life.

If you feel as if the job that you go to every single day provides you no satisfaction whatsoever, then what is the point of being there in the first place?

Sure, a paycheck is nice, you need it to pay bills, your entertainment, etc. but at the cost of your true happiness? Does your passion involve you being miserable at your place of work 24/7?

You must decide which is more important and then fight for it.

2. Seeking Acceptance From Others

When we try to improve ourselves we will do anything it takes to gain acceptance from those around us. Have you ever considered that fitting in might not be the best solution to self-improvement?

Being just like everybody else means that you don't necessarily care for anything that you, yourself, are interested in.

You need to show others what you're made of, demonstrate the confidence that everyone lacks in order to be different.

Fitting in isn't always the best solution when it comes to self-respect.

3. Self-Hate

To be blunt, there is not other person in the world that is like you.

To have a negative view of your self-image is probably one of the most counterproductive things you could do in order to have self-respect.

That is the whole point of self-respect after all, is loving yourself, standing up for the things that you believe in, and fighting for the change that you want to see flourish in this world.

If you are constantly putting negative energy out in the world what do you think is going to come right back to you?

Think about all of the things that make you an awesome person and if there isn't any at the moment then start transforming yourself into someone you love!

4. Never Seeing The Bigger Picture

If you want to gain self-respect then you are going to have to look at more than just one perspective. That's the beauty of our world is that you are able to look at things in more than one way.

There may be a variety of bad times in your life but those adversities challenge us to see the bigger picture that we play a part in. You must remain open to any and every kind of possibility that can happen to you.

Keeping yourself closed off to the world is doing more harm than good.

5. Making Everyone Happy

Unfortunately, you cannot be a "people pleaser" your entire life.

Sure, you may want to try and make every single thing perfect for everyone to enjoy but that's an extremely high expectation that hardly anyone is able to fulfill on their own.

Instead of trying to make everyone else happy, focus on your own happiness. People who see you doing the things that you love will eventually flock to you like moths to a light.

Your happiness outshines everyone else's once you've figured out how to master that kind of happiness.

Hopefully this has helped you figure out what it means to have self-respect for yourself. Take the necessary steps to create the change that you wish to see within yourself as well as the world.

You must be willing to fight for the things you want in life that will make you the happiest.

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The World's Oldest Person Just Turned 119, But What's Fascinating Is How She Spends Her Days

The oldest person in the world just recently celebrated her 119th birthday in a nursing home in southwestern Japan. Now if you're picturing an immobile old lady who does nothing bt spend her days in bed, think again. This woman may be at the end of her days, but she is still full of life.

The way that she spends her every day should be an inspiration to all of us that we're never too old to put in the effort everyday to live it to the fullest. After all, what's the point in living if we don't actually feel alive? Here's how she does it.

She Has Watched The Whole World Change

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When you've lived almost a century and a quarter long, you're bound to probably feel like you're in your own science fiction movie by the end. The world has drastically changed over the years. When Kane Tanaka was born, in 1903 in Japan, life was much simpler. This was the same year that the Wright brothers powered their first flight. Kane grew up around her nine siblings before she married a rice shop owner when she turned 19 years old.

Since then she has lived through wonders including two world wars, two pandemics, the rise of technologies, and more life changes than we could possibly imagine.

Today, Her Routine Is Quite Unique

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​Just because she has lived a long and meaningful life, doesn't mean that she's done living each day to the fullest. What's really fascinating about Kane's long life is the way that she chooses to live every day.

It turns out that even at her nursing home, Kane wakes up every morning bright and early at 6 a.m. and spends part of her day studying mathematics. She keeps her mind sharp and alert by spending the day solving number puzzles and playing board games. She has gotten so good at this that in 2019, she became an expert in the game of Othello, a strategy board game, even beating the nursing home's younger staff.

She Has Broken New Records

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Kane is now part of the Guinness World Records and has been since turned 117 and became Japan's oldest living person. On her birthday, Guinness even tweeted her a happy birthday and shared a video of her from 2019, when she was officially given the title.

Unfortunately, while Kane has adapted to much of the modern world, she hasn't made it as far as setting her own Twitter account to reply. Nonetheless, everyone who saw the tweet was inspired by her will to live as well as the way she chooses to live.

She's Got The Right Attitude

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Tanaka sounds like a delightful woman who emits all kinds of positive vibes. Her personality exceeds her intelligence and love for math because just like the average person, Tanaka also shares a strong love for fizzy drinks and chocolate. In fact, when she was gifted a box of chocolates during her Guinness ceremony, someone asked her how many chocolates she wanted to eat, she replied, "100." And why shouldn't she? When you've lived that long there is no reason not to indulge and maximize life's little pleasures.

Tanaka carried the same attitude when she was crowned Japan's oldest person at 117 and celebrated with a coke. Tanaka's positivity is radiant and comes across in all her gestures. When she was sent flowers on Respect for the Aged Day, she expressed her gratitude by making a peace sign.

Maybe Chocolate Is The Key

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Tanaka has another three years to go until she breaks the all-time record for the oldest person that has lived, which right now is held by Jeanne Louise Calment from France, who lived to 122 years. Currently, she holds the record for the world's oldest currently living person since Jeanne has since passed.

What's interesting about these two women is their love for their chocolate. They say that Jeanne ate two pounds of chocolate a week! Could chocolate be the new fountain of youth? The answer is probably in how these two women carried themselves in their youth and the way they're able to see the good in the everyday. However, Japan is known to hold one of the longevity rates in the world which have increased significantly in the last 60 years.

How Much Longer Do You Have left?

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​No matter how old or young you are in this moment, you are still alive for a reason. Make every moment count, have no regrets. Live every day to the fullest and find within it a reason to be happy. If you're still looking for a purpose, take a quick zodiac reading here to find out what your universe has to say about you right now.

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