May We Attract People With Genuine Intentions
7 Ways To Attract The Right People In Your Life
1. Keep your word.
If you intend to do something, do it. If you say you're going to show up, show up. Don't be flakey. Keep your word.
When you keep your word, you attract all the best people in the world. Sturdy people like sturdy people. Makes sense, right?
2. Be positive.
No one likes a downer. People are are too serious or stressed can make you uncomfortable. So be positive! Smile!
It signals to people that you like to have a good time and you've got good energy about you.
3. Learn names.
Forgetting someone's name is a great way to lose someone's trust, so remember their names and call them by it!
It may not seem significant, but hearing their name coming from you makes them feel special and cared for.
4. Be vulnerable.
There's no need to be a hard shell. Expose your underbelly once in a while. Talk about your past. Talk about your insecurities. Tell a secret or two.
Allow yourself to be exposed.
5. Ask questions.
Get to know the people you meet. Ask them questions about their lives. Find out a little more about them.
You can't expect to attract good people if you're always inviting in the wrong ones. Get to know them a little bit.
6. Have fun at your own expense.
It's like I said before, people don't like downers. If you mess up, laugh about it! Make an inside joke. But don't let it get to the point where it's hurtful.
7. Listen with your whole self.
Really truly listen to people when they speak to you. Don't just wait for your turn to talk. Turn your whole body to them. Nod your head as you listen.
Put your phone away. Treat them like people, not like objects.
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