It All Starts With You

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Some people are blessed with natural beauty, they go through most of their lives benefitting from their good looks and having no trouble at all drawing the attention of anyone they find themselves interested in.

Others end up putting in more effort or just having difficulty attracting the object of their affection.

They might be socially awkward, wallflowers who don’t get noticed often or perhaps they weren’t quite as lucky in the “rugged good looks” department.

What most people don’t realize is that romance, love and especially attraction actually have to do with so much more than your face, hair or clothes.

We may not all look like Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, but putting energy and effort into being a person worthy of admiration and love can be just as appealing as a gorgeous face.

If you practice these 9 habits regularly, you can become a more attractive person, without changing anything at all about your outer appearance.

1. Live in the moment.

Mindfulness is all about being aware of your personal mental and spiritual state and the world around you in this present moment.

It’s about never dwelling too deeply on the past (this will keep you from progressing) and never obsessing too much over the future either (this forces you to live in fear and insecurity).

You have to live at least for the large majority, in this present moment. Do what you can to affect change in your life now, don’t regret what has passed and don’t worry about what might come to be.