Have you ever been attracted to someone despite the fact that he/she is not particularly good-looking? I think we all have at one time or another.
And, even though he/she isn’t very attractive, they attract people in droves.
You want to hate them, but you just can’t. Instead, you’d rather be them. Well, below are some tips to help achieve that.
1. Know Yourself/Be Yourself
Personal congruence is the practice of aligning your thoughts, words, and actions. Congruence is the quality that causes a person to come off to others as authentic and self-assured.
Practicing congruence promotes self-confidence because you are acting with integrity, and because others are responding to you as you truly are rather than as you think they would like you to be.
Being genuine and showing your flaws is usually much more charming than a manufactured veneer of perfection.