Breakups are tough, no matter what type of relationship you’re coming out of. Vulnerability seizes control, and your emotions boil over.
The quick fix is to dive into another relationship, hopingsomeone else will calm your internal storm. Before you take that leap, consider why you should be single for a while – at any age.
1. Discover Who You Are and Who You Want to Be
People are reactive by nature. We tend to think and respond based upon the perceived thoughts and actions of others, especially a significant other.
People in successful relationships have realized their unique identity and understand their own strengths and weaknesses.
They’ve discovered their individual purpose in life, have some idea of their long-term and short-term goals, and know who they want to become as they mature.
In other words, they’ve pinpointed their innermost needs and desires. Why is this important? It helps them recognize when a potential romantic partner is a good match –and when he isn’t.
After a breakup, it’s good to be single for a while andreconnect with yourself. Tired of always choosing the wrong man?
Tired of being deceived by charmers and covert operators? Try being single for a while and learn who you are as an individual in this world. But don’t stress about it.
Take some time to live – with yourself. When the time is right, you’ll more easily identify a suitable partner and develop a healthy relationship.
Learn how to keep your relationship alive, click here and watch this free video from relationship expert, Amy North.
2. Learn to Accept Yourself Before Accepting Someone Else