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7 Things Only Quiet People Will Truly Understand

Being a quiet person can have it's ups and downs, however, there's just a certain lifestyle that a majority of us would prefer compared to our extroverted opposites.

Most of the time, we are misunderstood for the things that we hold dear to us as well as the things that we like to do in our spare time.

Of course, it doesn't necessarily mean that we don't like doing things that are out of our comfort zone it's just that we like things to be a certain way before we truly commit.

There are a variety of things that we like to do, but these seven things are probably the most relatable to quiet people that stand out the most, or at least to us.

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Here are the seven things only quiet people truly understand:

1. Have To Have A Good Reason

Like we said before, we don't normally do certain things unless there is a purpose behind it.

We rarely commit to things that do not involve our personal input simply because we like to give our best to whatever it is that we want to demonstrate to others.

It's important to us that we are able to not get in the way of others as well as being precise with what we do and dealing with the consequences afterwards.

If we truly think there is no reason for us to be there in the first place then we will most likely not show up.

2. Take Your Time

When our friends are too busy or overwhelmed with something going on in their life, we prefer that they take their time instead of rushing to spend time with us.

We do not want them to be constantly looking at their watch instead of actually being engaged with what we are talking about or doing together.

It's really no trouble at all if you have other things going on at that moment, just let us know when you think you'll be done and when you are ready to hang out.

We probably have other things we could be doing anyways while we wait for them in the meantime.

3. Not Everyone Gets Us...

Not everyone is capable of being our friend so knowing that fact alone should give you a pretty good idea as to what it means for us to be with our close friends.

It's a huge compliment to our friends that we are willing to hang out with them because we know that if it were anyone else we would most likely be an anxious wreck.

Not everyone is capable of understanding how we operate so it's pretty amazing that you're the kind of person we like to spend our time with.

Sure, that may seem like an over-exaggeration, however, it's more than true when we are out with the people we consider to be our closest friends.

4. Natural Observers

One of the best things that every single quiet person is good at is being an observer.

This doesn't mean that we don't like to not give our input, but more like we look for the right opportunity to speak our minds.

If you plan on getting to know a quiet person a little bit more than you do now, then expect them to be thoroughly observing every single thing that you say and do the entire time you are with them.

This is how we are able to understand people as well as situations a lot better than we already do. Yes, it's easy to observe and that's how we like it too.

5. Like Going Out But...

Quiet people definitely love going out to the bar every now and then but would rather much prefer staying at home having a couple of porch beers or cracking open a new bottle of wine we've been looking forward too.

Bars are nice, don't get us wrong, however, it can prove to be a little too loud sometimes when we are trying to talk to our friends and we aren't able to understand anything that the other person is saying simply because of how loud the music is or how loud others at the bar might be.

It's nothing personal, we do love going out, but staying in and doing the same things can give us a lot of overall joy.

6. Prefer A Lot Of Alone Time

This is where a lot of people misunderstand us when it comes to having our alone time. Don't worry, prefer a LOT of alone time and not because we don't like going out in public as much.

We like being able to process everything that has happened to us throughout the day since we are constantly overthinking just about... Everything.

We need a lot of alone time so that we are able to decompress, calm our thoughts, and allowing for more information intake for the following days.

We also like to have our space to ourselves so that we are able to do the things we like to do in our free time that we would otherwise not get the chance to do.

7. Surface Appearances Mean Nothing

You really don't have to worry about getting dressed up, getting your hair done, or anything that involves you looking absolutely amazing.

Quiet people don't really care for the surface appearance of the people that we actually like.

We already like you for you there is no need for dressing up for us. This is also true for when you look your worst as well.

We still think you're an amazing human being that we absolutely love spending time with no matter what you look like!

You could be puking your guts out for all we care, we are still going to stand by your side and probably even hold your hair back while you vomit.

Hopefully this has given you a better idea as to what it means being in the shoes of a quiet individual.

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That's right, the numerology of your birth date, regardless of what month you were born, can reveal surprising information about your personality.

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Click HERE to learn what Numerology says about your life using only your Name and Birth Date.

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How To Be More Confident In Just 5 Minutes, Try It

We're Not Born With It

We weren't born confident. Confidence is a quality we need to cultivate by thinking outside of the box and refusing to live only to please others. Think back to when you were a child. You didn't need to be confident then, you simply cried when things didn't go your way. But, as you grew up, you start to notice the impact of how others see you and you become self-conscious. We're the ones that give power to others by letting what they think to dictate our confidence when really it's how we feel about ourselves that will radiate confidence.

That's why all it takes to be more confident is five minutes designed to rewire your thought pattern to bring the attention back where it belongs.

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Strike A Power Pose

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Guess what? No one is confident all the time. Not even those who have a full makeup and hair team every single day. The key is knowing how to switch confidence back on when it seems fleeting. You can actually trick your own brain.

Go into a room where you can be alone. It helps if there's a mirror. Then extend your arms up in a "V" shape. Stand as tall and as big as you possibly can. This is called the Victory stance and is a power pose. Keep your feet shoulder-width apart ad your chin up, and stand there in silence for two whole minutes. It might feel awkward for the first 30 seconds, but it'll fix your posture, bring a smile to your face and restore your confidence. Take that power out the door with you by keeping your head held high and your body standing straight.

Maintain Eye Contact

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Eye Contact is arguably the most powerful form of communication. When interacting with others, looking them in the eye makes them feel seen and acknowledges every word they say. When you keep your gaze fixated on them, after a while you genuinely stop noticing everything happening around them, and in a way you make them feel like the only person in the world.

You can do the same thing to yourself. Stand by a mirror and stare straight into your own and watch the world melt away. Remind yourself with the intention that at this moment all that matters is you. Everything else is on hold because to face it, you need to first check-in with yourself. You have all the power to make that happen because you love yourself, you have a purpose, and you matter. Remember who you are and ground yourself.

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Lose The "Ums"

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A confident person articulates and speaks with intention. Instead of blurting out whatever comes to mind, show assertiveness by taking a second to think before you speak. Not only will this help you lose the ums and uhs but it will make what you say seem more valuable. the same goes for awkward giggles at the end of a sentence.

Laughing when you're done is like saying that everything you just said was a joke and completely discredits you. You can practice this even as you think. Train your thought patterns so they flow.

Relive Your Most Glorious Moment

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This step is most beneficial at the moment right before you're about to be in the spotlight. Close your eyes. Think of the last time that you were proud of yourself in a situation. Remember how you felt, what you said, and why you did it.

Remember how successful you were and how capable you are of creating such success. Imagine all the details of that last moment of success and take the confidence it brings you into your next glorious moment.

Recreate Your Environment

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Do you know why some people who spend their days in offices aren't happy no matter how much money they make? It's because of their environment, constantly being in front of a screen and between four walls. Some research shows that taking even just two minutes to walk in greenery can completely change your mood. Remember that happiness is confidence so you want to be stimulating your brain and its perception of the world in every way that you can.

Whenever you're running low on confidence go and connect with nature, or experience a new place, or just change your environment to somewhere that makes you feel good and watch how it changes your mood. This then will reflect in how you present yourself to others.

Reframe Your Breath

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​When you're anxious and experiencing low self-esteem, your breathing physically changes. You start breathing heavily, and faster. The more shallow your breathing becomes, the worst you feel.

Instead, try breathing deeply with intention. Stand up and breathe in for five seconds, completely filling your diaphragm, and then breath out for another five seconds. As you take control of your breath, start visualizing a future where you are in control. Tell yourself "I breath in peace and I breath out anxiety" If you do this for a couple of minutes, you should feel relaxed and in control afterward.

Stop Chasing Someone Else's Ideal

If you're looking for a sign on whether you need a change then you're here for a reason. This is your sign.

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