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Everything To Know About Dating A Virgo Man

Virgo men are quite a delight to date, but they can also be difficult to put up with. Understanding their zodiac sign can help naviagte their behavior from their personality traits to their pet peeves and dating patterns.

Once a virgo falls, they fall hard, and they become quite protective but the journey to get there might have some ups and downs. Do you have what it takes?

He's Reserved And Guarded....At First

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​It might be hard to get to know a Virgo man at first because they're quite guarded. They have often been through a lot which pushes them to be reserved and wary of anyone who puts them at risk of being vulnerable. They may not come off passionate from the start because they want to make sure they know what they're getting into first.

It helps them to be friends first. Once they cave to their feelings, they become extremely loyal and protective and let you in on their dark but hilarious sense of humor.

He's Quick To Adapt

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As an Earth sign, the Virgo man is grounded to the earth and not to social ties and expectations. This makes it easy for him to be adapt but can also make it hard for him to be in one place for too long. He has an edgy side that can come off as impulsive but is great to have as support in difficult times.

The Virgo man loves to take on life's challenges but that doesn't translate that into matters of the heart. It's quite scary for him to fall in love and risk giving up his freedom.

Even In Love He's Stubborn

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The power dynamic in a relationship with a Virgo can be a constant battle. The Virgo man likes to think of himself as the dominant partner. He often comes with a whole set of rules. His intentions aren't to be stubborn but he simply has a system. He likes things done in his chaotically organized way.

Stand your ground because he's likely not going to admit that he's wrong or missed a detail. What usually happens is that he'll analyze your criticism and come back with a delayed apology.

He Has A Way With Words

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Virgos a sign ruled by Mercury, which gives him the ability to be witty. His cleverness can be quite charming and he definitely has a way with words.

On top of that, his sign is associated with servitude. That means that when he finally caves to love, he is willing to go to any length to take care of his person, for as long as it's done in practical ways. That means that he'll take on projects or chores to help out for example.

He's Super Organized...In His Own Way

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​Another result of being ruled by Mercury is that a Virgo's mind is racing at a 100 miles a minute. This makes him somewhat of a perfectionist as he wants to make sure everything is just right. He wants everything organized. Even if it looks messy to you he has a system and a method to his madness.

When it comes to relationships he can also have high standards that are sometimes hard to meet. However, he is able to adapt his definition of perfection to his love inetrest.

Communication Is A Rollercoaster

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​Relationships with Virgos can have really high ups followed by real downs. Due to his need for perfection, he can be quite fussy, and the speed and logic of his brain can make him unpredictable. He can seem hard to please which can be frustrating for his partner.

On top of that, his way of communication isn't always the nicest because it's rushed and ruled by emotion. On the good days, he'll be the best partner but on the bad days, you'll need a lot of patience.

Most Compatible Signs

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Virgo is most compatible with fellow earth signs or balanced by water signs. Tauras is able to respect Virgo's work ethic and they are similar in their honesty and bluntness. However, Capricorn is just as ambitious and hardworking. They just get each other.

Then there's water sign Cancer who balances out Virgo's logical and practical brain with some affection. Cancer is emotional and intimate and makes a great team when matched with a Virgo. Yet Scorpios are deep thinkers who love alone time and will have a similar communication style to Virgos.

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Why Some People See Ghosts While Others Don’t, According To Science

You would be surprised at how many people report sightings and apparitions of ghosts. However, some people are more prone to make these reports than others. For example, some studies show that almost half of widowed elderly Americans see a hallucination of their departed spouse. So are they are real or they just hallucinations we dream of during emotionally intense periods?

That's a hard question to answer because the definition of seeing ghosts can depend on the person. If we a define it as "sensing a presence" then it can be as simply as just feeling rather than actually "seeing." Thsi can happen in all kinds of states like when you're awake, or asleep, and when you're grieving or just focused enough to notice. In all cases, science can now explains why ghosts can be seen by some people, and not others.

The Fear Of Ghosts Itself

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Some people are scared of the paranormal. It's not necessarily the ghosts themselves that make them feel uneasy, but the meeting of the unknown and the possibility of something they don't understand that defies the laws of nature as they've come to understand it. For that reason, these people don't particularly enjoy darkness, thunderstorms, or horror stories. However, the brain is funny that way. It's possible that it's the fear itself that tricks the mind into interpreting certain events as "paranormal.' This could be because the mind is already oriented towards that risk. Think of it like when you go do a presentation and work yourself up so you forget all your lines.

On the other hand, those who don't give much thought to ghosts, aren't opening themselves up to the possibility of seeing them. So chances are, even if ghosts are real and have shown themselves to them, these people likely brushed it off with a more rational explanation.

Inability To Breath Properly

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​We take our ability to let the breath in and back out naturally for granted. However, when you actually bring awareness to the breath you can control its speed which can have good or harmful effects on your mind and body. For some people, breathing is actually harder because their brains don't get enough oxygen to operate properly. This could be developed with habits like smoking which is known as cerebral anoxia.

When the brain is deprived of oxygen it can start to play tricks on the mind. It'll see things that aren't there or hear voices that aren't present. These hallucinations can feel like out-of-body experiences and mimick ghost sightings and other paranormal activity.

Being Exposed To Carbon Monoxide Poisoning

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Usually, paranormal sightings are accompanied by physical systems like dizziness, nausea, and shortness of breath. Do you know what else causes these symptoms? Carbon monoxide poisoning. So when people report that their house is haunted, they probably should also double-check that their monoxide detector is working well.

This odorless gas often goes undetected despite sometimes having fatal repercussions. People who have been infected by the poisoning are more prone to hallucinations that make them believe in ghosts.

High Stress Situations

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A study tried to find the differences between people who have never had a paranormal experience and those who have. They found that supernatural experiences most likely happened in threatening or ambiguous environments. This means that stress was often a factor and the more in danger a person felt, the more likely they were to "see ghosts."

For example sailors, mountain climbers, and polar explorers often come home with vivid stories of ghosts following them, living in abandoned ships, or sending them rescuers. These people were often in life or death situations that amplified their sense of a paranormal presence

Inability To Sleep Properly

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One of the easiest ways to start losing your mind and ability to tell reality from distortion is by losing enough sleep. Eventually, insomnia takes over the sleep-deprived mind to play all kinds of tricks. Sleep is vital for a sharp mind and alert sensations.

The less sleep they have the more likely a person is to lose their sense of reality and get lost in a world they deem paranormal. Maybe this is the only time they're able to let go of the conditioning that prevents them from seeing ghosts. Maybe that's why children have an easier time seeing them and then grow out of it. Or maybe these people just need more sleep.

Being Surrounded By Technology

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In today's day and age, it's almost impossible to escape technology. We're surrounded by electrical appliances, televisions, phones, even if they aren't our own. To operate, these technologies create strong electromagnetic fields around them. Studies have shown that these electromagnetic fields interfere with our biological setup such as the electromagnetic field which our minds create.

Some people are more impacted and exposed to these effects, making them more prone to conjuring up ghosts. Keep in mind, that often reports of ghost sightings tell stories of ghosts who disrupt these fields such as by randomly turning on the tv or increasing the volume on the radio on their own

Living In Isolation Or Unusual Circumstances

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Similarly as when experiencing high levels of stress people who have become isolated in an extreme or found themselves in unusual environments were more likely to "see ghosts" This is probably due to their need to feel like someone or something else was also with them as a coping mechanism.

Usually, they can't describe the experience in detail but out's more of a vague feeling they remember like someone was watching them. ,

Looking Inwards

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A study proposed that we spend a lot of time processing the sensations from the world around us. But when we encounter a sensation that we're unprepared to process, like extreme loneliness or survival, we start to look inwards. This means that our greatest perception ability is the one we find in ourselves. If you're looking for more information on how you experience the world around you specifically, then you'll need your own zodiac reading

Take a quick zodiac reading here to find out what your universe has to say about you right now. Understand your purpose and your potential so that you can take control of your emotions, your life, and your future by clicking HERE.