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7 Confidence Killing Behaviors And How To Avoid Them

Lack of confidence can cause a lot of harm in a person's life.

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Our self-confidence affects how we see ourselves, how we interact with others, and how we engage with the world around us.

Feeling like we can't do something may keep us from trying, stop us from experiencing the best things in life, and even lead to depression.

So, you need to make sure you are creating habits that improve your confidence, not tear it down.

Here are seven confidence-killing behaviors that will keep you from living a better life, and how to avoid them.

1. Getting caught up in needless drama

We all know people who love to stir up drama for no apparent reason. Don't buy in to it. Stay out of other people's drama and don't create your own.

Instead, spend each and every day with all your energy directed toward positive ideas and possibilities. Instead of being annoyed, be amused.

Instead of getting angry, become curious. Feel admiration instead of envy.

Count your blessings, value the people who matter, and turn your back on any drama you or other people try to create in your life.

2. Needing to always be right

Some people tend to take a position and then argue and totally disregard differing opinions or points of view.

They "know" they're right (even when they're wrong) and they want you to know it too. Their behavior isn't a sign of confidence, but the sign of a bully.

Confident people take a stand not because they think they're always right, but because they're not afraid to be wrong.

They know that finding out what is right is a lot more important than being right.

When they're wrong, they're secure enough to graciously back down and appreciate the lesson they've learned from it.

3. Seeking approval from everyone

Confident people have no interest in pleasing everyone they meet. They know that not all people agree with them all the time.

You should never let the opinions of the masses define who you are or what you can or can't do. Instead, focus on getting approval from the people who actually matter to you.

When you do that, then no matter what you do, you will do it with confidence, because you know the people who truly matter are behind you.

4. Allowing failure to stop you and letting success go to your head

Think about success and failure in a different way. If success makes you arrogant, then you haven't succeeded. If failure makes you determined, you haven't failed.

Don't take everything that goes wrong personally, and don't get a big head when everything goes right.

Create, enjoy, learn, love, experience, succeed, fail, persevere, make mistakes, make progress, and take risks. Do this, and every day will be remarkable.

5. Talking too much

Getting attention by talking constantly is just a mask for insecurity. Confident people are often quiet and thoughtful. They listen as much, if not more, than they speak.

They already know what they think, so they want to know what you think. Instead of being the one who talks all the time, ask people questions.

You know a lot, but not everything, and the only way to learn more is to listen more.

6. Always saying, "Why me?"

Confident people don't say, "Why me?" Instead, they say, "Why not me?"

Unfortunately, many people feel they have to wait to be hired, to be good enough, to be chosen, while confident people know that they can do anything they set their minds to do, especially in this day and age.

Through the internet, they can create their own products and services, build their own networks of clients and partners, and follow their dreams.

7. Hiding from new life experiences

Life is short. Put yourself out there and let life touch you. Yes, it will hurt sometimes. But, don't let the fear of making a wrong decision prevent you from making any decision at all.

There are too many amazing places to go. Today is full of possibility. So go out and find a new adventure! See where it takes you and cherish every moment.

Are you still searching for your life purpose? You won't believe what the science of Numerology can reveal about you!

That's right, the numerology of your birth date, regardless of what month you were born, can reveal surprising information about your personality.

Unlock the messages hidden in your Personality Code now with your free personalized video report!

Click HERE to learn what Numerology says about your life using only your Name and Birth Date.

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Relationships

Psychology Defines 7 Types Of Love, Yet Only A Rare Few Make It To The Last One

Psychologists have confirmed the average person will experience different types of love through their lives. A study has even shown that a person can fall in love at least three times in their lifetime. Howevr, the type of love that they experience often depends on the one they share it with. Some people bring out deep emotions that cause a whirlwind of a romance, which is sometimes toxic. Others, turn out to be nothing more than companions and are better off as friendships.

However, rare are the people who gets the experience the kind of love that truly feels everlasting, fulfilling and healthy. Find out which kind of love we mean and which type of love your current kind of love falls into

.For more great relationship advice and tips on how to attain the kind of love you deserve, watch this video from expert, Amy North: Click Here To Watch The Full Video.

Infuatuation

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This is the first step of all relationships but it remains on a shallow level. It's usually a fine line between lust and love and infatuation never usually makes it past the lust and into a meaningful connection. Yet, infatuation is often disguised as love and can be confusing.

The more both parties are physically attracted to each other, the more they want to spend all of their time together and move a relationship really quickly from the get-go. However, this kind of relationship is usually short-lived. When relationships get too intense, too quickly, they don't tend to take the time to build a solid enough foundation to grow on, and many of the red flags just get brushed off only to come back later.

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Liking

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This is usually the second stage of a relationship. Once we decide that we are attracted enough to someone, we become open to getting to know them better. From there, the more we get to know them, the more feelings are developed based on what we know. This is still an introductory stage to relationships, because the more layers are peeled, the higher the risk of finding some sort of dealbreaker that ends the relationship there.

During this stage either feelings will develop closer to love, and increase passion or commitment, or they will eventually fade and grow closer to a friendship It all depends on shared values, interests, and needs.

Empty Love

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This is a tricky kind of relationship. On one hand, it is an exclusive relationship with an agreed-upon commitment. Couples experiencing this type of love could spend years on end together but still lack intimacy and passion. They may truly enjoy each other's company and care deeply about one another but still be missing that special spark that makes everything come together.

Over time the relationship becomes comfortable but boring. It's not necessarily that anyone is doing anything wrong, but there is no denying that the relationship is just missing something to make it feel passionate and exciting.

Fatuous Love

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This is the most common type of love as it includes two of the three foundations: commitment and passion. Couples often find that enough to pursue their relationship and exchange their vows. Yet, this kind of relationship despite having attraction lacks true intimacy.

These kinds of relationships go through many ups ad downs, they have their good days but they also have the days where they feel like they're not truly happy or like their needs aren't being fully met. This could be due to differing love languages or because the couple isn't able to reach a high enough level of vulnerability to fully give themselves to someone else.

Romantic Love

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This kind of love has another combination of the three pillars of love: passion and intimacy. The feelings are there and so is the attraction. Couples in this kind of relationship feel really close to one another and it's easy for them to open up. They fall deeply in love, rather quickly and naturally. The only problem is they can't necessarily agree on where the relationship is headed so they just brush it off.

They put off serious commitments hoping to just go with the flow and figure the rest out in time. Unfortunately in many instances, the relationship reaches a termination point because of major commitments that can't be agreed on.

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Companionate Love

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Companionate love consists of commitment and intimacy, another combination that is still lacking. This type of love is somewhere between the line of friendship and love. There is somewhat of an attraction that makes the friendship feel stronger but it's mostly due to the strong bond that's shared. This kind of couple is each other's best friend, They trust each other fully, and are able to be completely themselves.

The attraction is there and the love is genuine but it's missing that head over heels super-in-love kind of feeling. Many relationships develop into this kind of love after many years of marriage.

Consummate Love

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This is the ideal kind of love and yet it is the rarest of all. It is made of all the pillars of the perfect relationship: love passion, emotional and physical intimacy, and commitment. The levels of each vary throughout time but there is enough of each to keep the relationship young even after years of commitment. Arguments are resolved peacefully, affection is given freely and plans of the future are carried out.

These couples are just as in love as the day they met during their final days. They find ways to keep their relationships exciting and keep on surprising one another. They never allow themselves to truly get comfortable and stop appreciating what they have. They trust each other fully while still pursuing their own independence.

Healthy Love

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All that matters in love is that you are happy and the love is healthy. The rest can be developed and worked on with the right person. In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?

Love is more than just kisses and butterflies, it's much more than that. If you want to know more on what your birth chart reveals about how you love and what you need out of a partner, check out this personalized report based on date of birth.