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7 Signs Your Relationship Is The Source Of Your Unhappiness

1. The intimate attraction is gone.

This is the first sign that things aren't going great in your relationship. Many decide to overlook this problem because they love more about their partner than just the intimacy, but this leads to some uncomfortable realities.

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2. The relationship drains you.

After a weekend together, you're drained. You're drained because you fought, they annoyed you, you didn't see eye to eye - we've all felt this way before.

Face it: your partner is going to just drain your energy from time to time. If it starts becoming an all the time issue, that's a big problem.

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3. You want to get away.

You'd rather go hang out with your friends and family then spend another evening with them. This is your reality. This is also a sign that it's time to move in.

4. You don't enjoy your partner.

This ties into #3 a bit. You may have fell in love with their wild spirit and their creative side, but over time, that's gone the wayside. You no longer enjoy them. Time to call it quits.

5. You put in all the effort.

You do the dishes. You walk the dogs. You feed the fish. You clean the bathroom. You make the bed. You do all the work in the relationship.

No matter what you do, you can't get your partner to meet you halfway. They sit around and do nothing. Time to call it quits.

6. You feel trapped in it.

Social obligations, living together, joint finances, marriage; they all stop you from pulling the trigger. You don't want to be in the relationship but stay because you're stuck in it.

Guess what: you're not. You can do whatever you want. It may be hard, but time heals all wounds.

7. You idealize being with someone else.

Your partner doesn't meet some of your expectations and they just can't quite seem to get on your level, so you begin thinking about people in your life who do match your intensity.

This is a red flag, big time. We have goals. If your partner isn't going to make it to your goals with you, it's time to move on.

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Uplifting

Twins Born Just Minutes Apart End Up Born in Two Different Years

It's as confusing as it sounds

You probably are confused by the title of this story but we assure you, you read it right. This is the story of how two twins who were born just moments apart ended up in two different years. It happens quite often actually and you'll understand once we reveal how. Ot's just a question of timing, much of which is outside anyone's control.

If you've already figured it out, then you likely have a great perspective. If you're still confused, don't worry, we're about to explain everything. And no, there's no time travel involved.

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Just A Matter Of Minutes

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Perhaps the most interesting factor in life is that all it takes for a drastic life change is just a moment. This can be good or bad. In a moment you can lose everything, say the wrong thing, or trip and fall into a lifetime injury. But at the same time, our whole identity is created in moments, such as the moment of your first kiss, the last time you see someone you loved, or the moment you hold your newborn baby for the first time.

This set of twins was born within just minutes of each other. However despite being twins they were born on different days, different months, and even different years.

Did The Hospital Make A Mistake?

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Now it's easy to wonder: "how could this even happen?" Maybe in the heat of the moment, a staff member accidentally wrote the wrong date on the birth certificate or the system made an error.

But the situation was much simpler. What happened was that parents Fatima Madrigal and Robert Trujillo of Greenfield welcomed a son named Alfredo into the world on New Year’s Eve at 11:45 p.m, their local time. Now that part makes sense. What makes this story interesting is that exactly fifteen minutes later, another baby pushed out and the couple welcomed Alfredo’s twin sister Aylin. This put the time of her birth to be on New Year’s Day, a whole day, month, and year ahead of her brother's. Now he can always claim to be the oldest and no one can argue against it.

The Magic of A Unique Birth

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Thankfully both babies came out healthy, despite the complications that the birth of twins can sometimes face. Aylin was welcomed into the world at 5 lbs., 14 oz., while her big brother, Alfredo weighed 6 lbs., 1 oz. Even their parents were amazed that their children now had different years on their birth certificates. The mother explained: "It's crazy to me that they are twins and have different birthdays."

Although this might not be the first time this happens, twins with different birthdays are rare, and the chance of twins being born in different years is about one in 2 million. These babies defied the odds from the moment they came into the world, now they can take that with them for the rest of their lives.

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Imagine The Birthday Parties

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Dr. Ana Abril Arias, who oversaw the delivery said that it was certainly one of the most memorable deliveries of their career. It's interesting thinking about how the twins will lead their lives after they've made such a remarkable entrance.

Twins often feel like they are in competition with one another, in an attempt to build their own identity and feel unique. Now they can have birthday parties a day apart and really feel like, despite their connection as twins, they're both still unique individuals.

Twins Make For Only 3% Of American Births

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According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), there are typically 120,000 twin births every year in the United States. The births make up just over 3 percent of all births, however, which is a considerably small percentage. Their uniqueness allows them to tap into abilities that help them form really strong bonds. They sometimes can even tap into abilities that the average person can't access. For instance, 40% of twins invent their own languages, some even say that they can almost read each other's minds. This could be due to the fact that twins start interacting in the womb at 14 weeks.

However, they also hold their differences. In fact, Identical twins have different fingerprints and twins can even have completely different skin tones.

Stranger Things Can Happen

The year is just beginning and yet newborn babies made headlines within seconds of coming into this world. It puts into perspective how quickly someone's existence can make an impact, and how simple that impact can be. This year, ask yourself how you can make your mark, and watch its ripple effects.

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