5 Harsh Truths Most People Forget
Perception is everything. The simplicity of this phrase overwhelms us sometimes. We can choose to see some of the expressions below as harsh statements, that inspire negativity, or choose to see the beauty and potential in them.
Most aspects of life have 'good' and bad' elements in them. We get focused on the negative at times, but this short list should help restore perspective.
No One Is Actually Too Busy To Respond To You
When we don't seem to be a priority in people's life, it's all too easy to to get upset and take it personally. First remember that everyone has craziness in their life. Life can be hard all round and you should offer support, to help them finish their business.
If, however, a person never tries to include you in their life, or explain their aloof nature, you may be better off without them. If there is no reciprocation or even an attempt at genuine communication, stop wasting your energy.
Everyone Is Looking Out For Themselves
Can you blame them, or accept blame, for looking out for yourself? You are the only one experiencing, first hand, these particular feelings, attitudes and preferences.
We can do our best to share moments and insights with others but the information is always second hand. By looking out for yourself, you ensure that your resources and time will be maximized. Don't try to deprive others of the same right.