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9 Things You Shouldn't Care About Anymore

Human beings tend to spend a lot of time thinking about and fixating on the wrong things. Not that we don't try to prioritize our time and thoughts to be beneficial, we just lose sight of what's really important or maybe not important at all.

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We all know, or maybe are, that person who just dwells and dwells, putting far more effort, energy and worry into things that they should really let go of.

When you're focusing on the wrong things, it's nearly impossible to make true progress as a person and in your life. This is not a good way to live.

Sometimes though, it can be difficult to keep in mind the things we should or shouldn't allow ourselves to get caught up and care too much about.

Here are 9 things you can just quit caring about today if you're ready to move on and upward with your life and self-growth.

1. Regrets and mistakes.

Don't get me wrong, remembering the challenges and difficulties of the past is important, you don't want to make the same mistakes or poor decisions all over again simply because you've blocked it from your brain.

But dwelling on those mistakes and regrets, obsessing over what could have gone differently or what should have been done differently, isn't going to make them disappear and it won't help you in the present.

You should use that energy for forethought now instead, consider your past experiences from an objective point of view and apply what you've learned to your current situation.

2. Rationalizations and excuses.

When it comes down to it, nobody wants to hear excuses.

Either you take full responsibility for what has transpired, or you admit that you fell short this time, and try harder next time.

You're never going to be able to find better ways of being successful and following through if you can't even own the fact that you've failed before.

So you didn't get it right and you couldn't achieve what you wanted to. Find out where you went wrong and make the proper adjustments, rather than making excuses.

3. Have and have not.

There is great pressure these days to chase shallow symbols of status.

Even the most enlightened of us falls victim to the peer and societal pressure placed upon us over these things.

A beautiful home for entertaining or a brand new car that can achieve speeds we could never even legally attempt to reach on the public roads; most of us know deep down that these things will not bring us happiness or make us better human beings, but we often waste a lot of time and energy trying to obtain them anyway.

You need to shift your priorities. A new expensive toy may not change you as a person, but a unique experience will.

Giving a generous gift certainly could. There are far more important and beneficial ways to enrich ourselves, forget the brand names and bank balance and focus on the intangible and immeasurable gains.

4. The need for comfort and familiarity.

Most people are very fond of their comfort zones. This is a place, emotional and mental or actual/physical, in which everything is known, expected and predictable.

We like this because there is no fear of the unknown, there is nothing spontaneous to be thrown at us out of the dark.

Unfortunately this is also the best way to stunt your personal growth and sink into stagnation. Humans are wired to adapt to the unfamiliar.

We are the epitome of evolution and it is entirely in our nature to perform most admirably when we are forced to be resourceful, when we are taken by surprise. Don't stifle your potential.

5. Failure.

To fail is to learn. To fail is to come one step closer to achievement and success.

Every time you fail, you learn another way that doesn't work, and you are able to move on to new methods which may very well produce exactly the results you want.

Our society often teaches us that failure is bad, that it's something to ashamed of, but the only time one should be disappointed or ashamed is when they have refused to try. That is the only true failure.

6. Toxic people and unhealthy relationships.

This often has to do with an unhealthy comfort zone.

People would astound you with how long they will stick around fighting for a friend or lover who makes them absolutely miserable, simply because it is what they're used to.

The reality is that sometimes things just go bad, you lose the connection you once had and you're left with two people who no longer help or care for each other in any meaningful way.

Don't cling to it just because you feel like you have to. Toxic relationships are harmful to everyone involved, there's nothing selfish about letting go of something that's been dead and over for a long time.

7. Momentary gratification and recognition.

People like to be acknowledged and rewarded for the things they do and the work they contribute.

This is understandable to some degree, but it also doesn't really serve a purpose other than to feed your ego. It can be a motivation to put in effort, but it's really not a very healthy one at that.

You should be motivated by intrinsic values, your own passion and drive or emotional fulfillment that comes from being proud of what you've put out into the world. Don't get caught up in things like awards and plaques with your name on them.

8. Preconceptions and judgments.

We all form judgments in our heads very quickly when we come into contact with a new person.

It's a part of our nature to take what information we have, even if that is woefully little, and form an impression based on it.

It's important not to be hasty in doing so however, and to be kind and patient about it. Consider always, how much you don't know, rather than the bit you do.

It's fine to have opinions about people and things, just don't go around eagerly and harshly assigning them before you have all the information available.

It's not your job and it doesn't serve you to place so much focus on others anyway. In other words you'd be better off minding your own business and worrying about yourself.

9. The destination, as opposed to the journey.

In the fast moving modern world of technology and quick fixes, we are far too worried about the "end result".

We obsess so much over the finished product, the sale, the deadline, or the ultimate goal, that we end up skipping over valuable and important lessons in how we get there.

You have to remember to pace yourself in life. Appreciate the beauty and worth of the moment.

Love your journey, don't rush through it. In the end, you will want to remember every detail of the path you have walked. You will want to know how you got there.

Are you still searching for your life purpose? You won't believe what the science of Numerology can reveal about you!

That's right, the numerology of your birth date, regardless of what month you were born, can reveal surprising information about your personality.

Unlock the messages hidden in your Personality Code now with your free personalized video report!

Click HERE to learn what Numerology says about your life using only your Name and Birth Date.

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Twins Born Just Minutes Apart End Up Born in Two Different Years

It's as confusing as it sounds

You probably are confused by the title of this story but we assure you, you read it right. This is the story of how two twins who were born just moments apart ended up in two different years. It happens quite often actually and you'll understand once we reveal how. Ot's just a question of timing, much of which is outside anyone's control.

If you've already figured it out, then you likely have a great perspective. If you're still confused, don't worry, we're about to explain everything. And no, there's no time travel involved.

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Just A Matter Of Minutes

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Perhaps the most interesting factor in life is that all it takes for a drastic life change is just a moment. This can be good or bad. In a moment you can lose everything, say the wrong thing, or trip and fall into a lifetime injury. But at the same time, our whole identity is created in moments, such as the moment of your first kiss, the last time you see someone you loved, or the moment you hold your newborn baby for the first time.

This set of twins was born within just minutes of each other. However despite being twins they were born on different days, different months, and even different years.

Did The Hospital Make A Mistake?

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Now it's easy to wonder: "how could this even happen?" Maybe in the heat of the moment, a staff member accidentally wrote the wrong date on the birth certificate or the system made an error.

But the situation was much simpler. What happened was that parents Fatima Madrigal and Robert Trujillo of Greenfield welcomed a son named Alfredo into the world on New Year’s Eve at 11:45 p.m, their local time. Now that part makes sense. What makes this story interesting is that exactly fifteen minutes later, another baby pushed out and the couple welcomed Alfredo’s twin sister Aylin. This put the time of her birth to be on New Year’s Day, a whole day, month, and year ahead of her brother's. Now he can always claim to be the oldest and no one can argue against it.

The Magic of A Unique Birth

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Thankfully both babies came out healthy, despite the complications that the birth of twins can sometimes face. Aylin was welcomed into the world at 5 lbs., 14 oz., while her big brother, Alfredo weighed 6 lbs., 1 oz. Even their parents were amazed that their children now had different years on their birth certificates. The mother explained: "It's crazy to me that they are twins and have different birthdays."

Although this might not be the first time this happens, twins with different birthdays are rare, and the chance of twins being born in different years is about one in 2 million. These babies defied the odds from the moment they came into the world, now they can take that with them for the rest of their lives.

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Imagine The Birthday Parties

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Dr. Ana Abril Arias, who oversaw the delivery said that it was certainly one of the most memorable deliveries of their career. It's interesting thinking about how the twins will lead their lives after they've made such a remarkable entrance.

Twins often feel like they are in competition with one another, in an attempt to build their own identity and feel unique. Now they can have birthday parties a day apart and really feel like, despite their connection as twins, they're both still unique individuals.

Twins Make For Only 3% Of American Births

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According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), there are typically 120,000 twin births every year in the United States. The births make up just over 3 percent of all births, however, which is a considerably small percentage. Their uniqueness allows them to tap into abilities that help them form really strong bonds. They sometimes can even tap into abilities that the average person can't access. For instance, 40% of twins invent their own languages, some even say that they can almost read each other's minds. This could be due to the fact that twins start interacting in the womb at 14 weeks.

However, they also hold their differences. In fact, Identical twins have different fingerprints and twins can even have completely different skin tones.

Stranger Things Can Happen

The year is just beginning and yet newborn babies made headlines within seconds of coming into this world. It puts into perspective how quickly someone's existence can make an impact, and how simple that impact can be. This year, ask yourself how you can make your mark, and watch its ripple effects.

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