Letting loved ones go is probably one of the hardest adversities and experiences that a human being can go through, especially when those people choose to be no longer in your life for whatever reason.
Love in general is a very vicious emotion that is complicated, simple, warm, confusing, hurtful, you get the idea.
So, as humans, we owe it to ourselves to learn how to cope and move forward from these horrible feelings/despair. Easier said than done, we all know this.
Heartbreak teaches us a very important lesson about ourselves and if we are going to be strong enough to get over it. This is all a matter within yourself that you are going to have to come to terms with.
We don’t always get what we want, sadly, however, that does not mean we should despair so easily. Sure, we may have loved those people with all of our hearts, but we also deserve to be happy and full of love despite whoever doesn’t want to be in our lives anymore.
You, personally, owe it to yourself to find that warmth and happiness in the everyday that is your life. The important thing to remember after dealing with heartbreak is that you are an amazing person for dealing with these conflicting emotions.
It’s also important to remember that you have to forgive yourself and forgive them as well for choosing a different path from your own.
They may no longer be there by your side, but they are going to find happiness in their own time, at their own pace just like you will do the same. Letting go of these people is hard but is more than likely for the best. Happiness calls to us in a variety of ways, shapes, and forms.
Keep your head high, find the little things in life that make you happy, keep moving forward with those who need you and from those who don’t need you. Always remember that you are loved despite them being gone, remember that you are only human and deserve the best for yourself, and surrender yourself to these intense emotions as you slowly let yourself heal over time. Things will definitely get better!
Higher Perspectives Author is one of the authors writing for Higher Perspectives