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Men Share The Red Flags That A Woman Was Just Using Them As A Warning

In today's dating the world it's not just the men that get played. In a lot of cases they're also the ones who get taken advantage of because they missed the warning signs that a woman was taking advantage of.

Some men decided that enough is enough and they decide to list the red flags on a Reddit threat as to hopefully help others notice them before it's late.

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It's Her Way Or The Highway

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Whoever said happy wife, happy life, clearly didn't understand equality. The relationship shouldn't feel unbalanced and create unfair power dynamics. Both parties should be giving as much as they're receiving. If an unequal balance is created, the relationship is doomed to fail.

" In a good relationship, friendship, whatever, both people are giving what they want to give without coercion and both feel adequately rewarded for it. Sometimes one person needs more, sometimes the other, but it evens out over time. When you feel like you're being coerced into giving more than you really want, whether that's with force or emotional manipulation or whatever, you're being used and you'll eventually resent it." - munkymu / Reddit

Just Wants Some Attention

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"When you eventually tell her how you feel and your desire to be in a relationship, she uses lines such as 'I'm just not ready yet' or 'maybe,' and you fool yourself into thinking that 'yet' is just around the corner, but it never is." - freshballpowder / Reddit

Be careful of women who just need someone else's validation to feed their ego. They usually are coming from a place of low self-esteem where they need to feel desired by someone, even if they have no interest in being with him, just to feel like they are worthy. These women need to find happiness within first before committing themselves to someone else.

Emotion Is Not Welcomed

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Some women need someone to vent to and assume their partner will have to listen to their complaints non-stop They want to completely unload on someone else yet they don't give their partner's issues any worth. Rather they dismiss their feelings any time they try to bring them up.

"Anytime you try opening up, you're acting off-character, selfish, an ass, etc. it's usually the typical pathetic manipulation people pull to make you feel bad for either standing up for yourself or just trying to be you." -CutTheShitNow / Reddit

Energy Vampires

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​"You should look that up, but basically selfish people that only care about themselves will unload all their emotions and problems onto you to feel better, but will never ever reciprocate because they feel their issues are important and don't view yours as important." Mugen593

Just like the name suggests these are the kind of women that leave you feeling drained. They suck all your energy out with their nagging and complaining and don't fill it back up with any kind of comfort or affection.

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Preying On Vulnerabilities

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Thankfully there are still some kind and generous men out there but sadly they often get taken advantage of. Some women are only looking for someone who will buy them nice gifts so that they don't have to do it themselves. While this is not the case for most women, be careful of those who claim gift-giving is their love language but never offer it in return.

"Givers: Be mindful of your limits because the takers don't have any." —corrado33

Lack Of Empathy

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"She often accused me of having no empathy, because I was very calm and level-headed, despite the fact that I work with disabled kids which requires a lot of empathy. She had no real concern for anyone unless it was to maintain [a] public image." —DrRonSimmons

Stay away from women who have not adapted to the evolving mentality that men are human beings who have feelings too... More and more women are embracing that for men to show emotion is a sign of strength and not weakness.

Just Needs A Therapist

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"Guys, if she only reaches out to you when she's hurt or vulnerable, she doesn't want YOU, she wants sympathy and knows you'll give it to her." —AlphaTangoFoxtrt

The type of women who do nothing but complain because they always seem to find themselves in trouble eventually run out of people who will listen to them or help them. So they end up having to get creative to find new outlets and people they think will fix their problems for them.

The Warning Signs Are Endless

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From emotional manipulation to using you to project all that she is angry about in the world, the ways that a woman could use her partner to fill her void and unhappiness are actually endless. In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?

Love is more than just kisses and butterflies, it's much more than that. If you want more personalized information on what your birth chart reveals about how you love and what you need out of a partner, check out this personalized report based on date of birth.

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The Four Zodiac Signs That Make The Best Husbands

Women give a lot of time and thought to their idea of the best husband. Most would agree that he must be caring, loyal, attentive, understanding, and independent. No woman is looking to marry a man-child who is just looking for someone to mother him while he contributes the bare minimum. The tricky part is that most men are skilled at charming women into thinking that they will give them the world only to later find out that this was nothing but a facade, an idea they presented but had no intention of maintaining.

Luckily astrology has shown that some signs hold traits and characteristics within their core that naturally give them an advantage. Their personalities hold the traits of the best husbands.

For a personalized reading, unlock the messages hidden in your Personality Code now with your free personalized video report

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Aries: A Man On An Honest Mission

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​Aries is the kind of man who steps up to the plate without waiting for an invitation. You don't need to ask him twice to take out the trash, because he loves to take charge and be proactive. When they're at their best, Aries men want to become the financial head of their family. They want to ensure that they are working independently to provide and care for the one they love to the best of their abilities.

What makes Aries men great husbands is that they take care of themselves first so that they can actually care for a partner. Sometimes this means that they'll avoid relationships and stay single for long periods of time before they feel like they're in the right place for marriage. However, they tend to be honest about where they are along their path and with their intentions, making them easy to trust and later upfront husbands. You usually don't have to play guessing games, as they'll lay out their cards for you straight on the table.

Leo: Carefree Nature

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Leo men usually have a carefree nature and are happy to do their own thing while letting their partner do theirs. They are easy to plan with and communicate with because they are just happy if you are happy. They're not the jealous type or the overprotective kind that needs you home by a certain time and feels the need to check your phone when you're not looking. The trusting and natural connection they build makes for healthy relationships where both partners are independent in their own ways but can unite in an equal partnership.

Leos are also known to be courageous. Their carefree nature allows them to take risks without overthinking the outcomes. They are likely to go out of their way to make the first moves and put in the effort. They will make their wives feel supported, protected, and lifted.

Virgo: Supportive And Thoughtout

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A Virgo man is husband material because he actually takes the time to think things through. He doesn't rush into relationships and commitments unless he truly feels that it is right. This means that once he chooses the woman he wants to marry, he becomes entirely loyal and dedicated to her. He's willing to work through the hard times and doesn't give up easily. He takes time during arguments to think of logical responses rather than fight in the heat of the moment.

Virgo men are good at providing validation and reminding their wives that they are loved and cared for. They take their hard work ethic with them in their relationships because they understand that love is a muscle that needs to be trained in order to keep functioning at a healthy level. When Virgo men make a promise, they keep it forever.

Take a quick zodiac reading here to find out what your universe has to say about you right now.

Taurus: Protective Of The Heart

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​A Taurus man is both caring and loyal. He is the kind of husband who will always reassure you that he's on your team. He wants to face all your problems with you, not against you. You can count on him when you need support or even just a little help around the house. His reliability means that he always shows up, and remembers birthdays and anniversaries.

Taurus men have a great moral compass that easily guides them in their relationships. They hate to disappoint you so they go out of their way to make sure that you know how much they are trying to love you. Taurus is a romantic at heart, which makes him the ideal partner for a stable relationship that doesn't get comfortable and boring. From the moment he marries the woman he loves, he becomes protective of her heart

Cancer: A Lover Of Love

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Cancer men can't help but love everything about love. They can come off as needy but they are just craving to be loved the same intense, everything in, passionate way that they give love. They are emotional and sentimental making them some of the most romantic partners. They love to surprise their wives with flowers, or acts of service without being asked, just to see her smile at the end of the day.

They give a lot of affection and actually enjoy spending quality time with their wives. They are not confrontational and are great communicators. Marriages with them tend to be calm and patient because they don't let issues bottle up and talk calmly whenever there is an issue. They are genuinely kind and make caring partners.

Get Personal And Break The Cycle

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We don't blame you for being frustrated with dating but if you're struggling to find and keep a quality man click here to find out how to break the cycle. In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?

Love is more than just kisses and butterflies, it's much more than that. If you want to know more on what your birth chart reveals about how you love and what you need out of a partner, check out this personalized report based on date of birth.

For more great relationship advice and tips on how to attain the kind of love you deserve, watch this video from expert, Amy North: Click Here To Watch The Full Video.