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12 Signs You're In A Relationship With A Good Partner

1. Your partner makes it clear how much they love you.

They don't only say that they love you, but they act upon it too. They make coffee for you in the morning, include you in all decisions big and small, they do

2. Your partner supports you through thick and thin.

They're not afraid to call you out on it when you're wrong, but just because you messed up doesn't mean you don't deserve support from your partner.

They'll stick by you through the good and the bad.

3. Your partner inspires you to do better.

In addition to #2, your partner will help inspire you to do better when you're faltering. They'll be your support structure.

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4. Your partner works hard to gain your trust.

I always try to maintain the attitude that you should trust until you have a reason not to, but the ideal partner will take steps to make sure that your trust is earned, not assumed.

5. Your partner makes you feel attractive.

They'll tell you you look beautiful or handsome or cute. They'll complement how you look. They'll make you feel attractive and special in general.

6. You feel safe with your partner.

And I don't mean like in a safe from home invasion kind of safe. You'll feel like you can take on anything the world has to throw at you when you're with them.

7. Your partner doesn't cross the line.

And if they do, they're super super sorry about it. It takes time to figure out what your partner's buttons are, but once it's established, they won't be pushed.

8. Your partner always wants to improve with you.

I've always thought that the strongest relationships are ones where the people involved grow together instead of apart.

The perfect partner will try to grow with you as much as they can.

9. Your partner feels actions are louder than words.

Sort of like what I was talking about with love. The act of love is a lot more meaningful than just saying the words.

They'll show their commitment to you in many different ways. Be sure you're paying attention.

10. Your partner will open up and be honest with you.

Don't expect it on the third date necessarily, but over time, your perfect partner will become more comfortable with you and won't have any problem being open and honest with you always.

11. You'll feel comfortable being completely honest with your partner.

And you'll probably feel the same as they do.

12. Your partner will never be abusive.

This is the most important. There's no "he was just mad," or "she just had a long day at work." They'll check themselves when they're upset by something.

They'll never abuse you physically or verbally. And if they do, they might not be the perfect partner anymore. These things do change over time.

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Twins Born Just Minutes Apart End Up Born in Two Different Years

It's as confusing as it sounds

You probably are confused by the title of this story but we assure you, you read it right. This is the story of how two twins who were born just moments apart ended up in two different years. It happens quite often actually and you'll understand once we reveal how. Ot's just a question of timing, much of which is outside anyone's control.

If you've already figured it out, then you likely have a great perspective. If you're still confused, don't worry, we're about to explain everything. And no, there's no time travel involved.

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Just A Matter Of Minutes

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Perhaps the most interesting factor in life is that all it takes for a drastic life change is just a moment. This can be good or bad. In a moment you can lose everything, say the wrong thing, or trip and fall into a lifetime injury. But at the same time, our whole identity is created in moments, such as the moment of your first kiss, the last time you see someone you loved, or the moment you hold your newborn baby for the first time.

This set of twins was born within just minutes of each other. However despite being twins they were born on different days, different months, and even different years.

Did The Hospital Make A Mistake?

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Now it's easy to wonder: "how could this even happen?" Maybe in the heat of the moment, a staff member accidentally wrote the wrong date on the birth certificate or the system made an error.

But the situation was much simpler. What happened was that parents Fatima Madrigal and Robert Trujillo of Greenfield welcomed a son named Alfredo into the world on New Year’s Eve at 11:45 p.m, their local time. Now that part makes sense. What makes this story interesting is that exactly fifteen minutes later, another baby pushed out and the couple welcomed Alfredo’s twin sister Aylin. This put the time of her birth to be on New Year’s Day, a whole day, month, and year ahead of her brother's. Now he can always claim to be the oldest and no one can argue against it.

The Magic of A Unique Birth

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Thankfully both babies came out healthy, despite the complications that the birth of twins can sometimes face. Aylin was welcomed into the world at 5 lbs., 14 oz., while her big brother, Alfredo weighed 6 lbs., 1 oz. Even their parents were amazed that their children now had different years on their birth certificates. The mother explained: "It's crazy to me that they are twins and have different birthdays."

Although this might not be the first time this happens, twins with different birthdays are rare, and the chance of twins being born in different years is about one in 2 million. These babies defied the odds from the moment they came into the world, now they can take that with them for the rest of their lives.

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Imagine The Birthday Parties

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Dr. Ana Abril Arias, who oversaw the delivery said that it was certainly one of the most memorable deliveries of their career. It's interesting thinking about how the twins will lead their lives after they've made such a remarkable entrance.

Twins often feel like they are in competition with one another, in an attempt to build their own identity and feel unique. Now they can have birthday parties a day apart and really feel like, despite their connection as twins, they're both still unique individuals.

Twins Make For Only 3% Of American Births

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According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), there are typically 120,000 twin births every year in the United States. The births make up just over 3 percent of all births, however, which is a considerably small percentage. Their uniqueness allows them to tap into abilities that help them form really strong bonds. They sometimes can even tap into abilities that the average person can't access. For instance, 40% of twins invent their own languages, some even say that they can almost read each other's minds. This could be due to the fact that twins start interacting in the womb at 14 weeks.

However, they also hold their differences. In fact, Identical twins have different fingerprints and twins can even have completely different skin tones.

Stranger Things Can Happen

The year is just beginning and yet newborn babies made headlines within seconds of coming into this world. It puts into perspective how quickly someone's existence can make an impact, and how simple that impact can be. This year, ask yourself how you can make your mark, and watch its ripple effects.

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