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The Brutal Truth Behind The Toxic Relationship Between A Narcissist And An Empath

I'm an empath, and I think narcissists are special. It may seem kind of silly, but the narcissist, the one so focused on how great they are, is actually profoundly wounded.

Something in childhood got to them. It unraveled them. It damaged them. And so now they seek validation. But here I am. I'm an empath.

I'm a healer. I absorb what other people are feeling it and feel it as if it were my own. My own pain, my own anguish, my own hurt.

Narcissists rarely know an empath's boundaries. It makes us easy to bond with. We eat their pain like breakfast lunch and dinner.

What I always forget when I love a narcissist is that they're takers. They don't give much back. They look to you to fix them. They're never fixed though.

This leaves the empath now shattered and losing touch with their empathy. It's how narcissists are born. It's hard to escape from.

At the end of the day, the narcissist is going to be manipulative. They desire deeply to be in a position of control. All an empath really wants is love and to be loved. I want to heal people. I want to care for people.

But narcissists grow stronger from love like mine. Their damage is never healed, but they feel better about themselves. But a narcissist never makes a true connection to their authentic selves.

They will walk away from almost every relationship once they realize they can't control their partner anymore. It's no longer a fun game.

It's just not possible for the two to bond. As an empath you will likely attract several different types of narcissists to your life.

Below we have a compiled a list of the five most popular types of narcissists you will encounter:

1. The Victim

A narcissist isn't always confident by nature. They can be quiet, reserved, and sensitive too. They may engage in self-hatred and act like they aren't worthy.

They are often motivated by their fears and don't truly have the capacity to fully be themselves or loved. Their narcissism is fueled by inferiority complexes.

2. The Superhero

On the opposite end of the spectrum is the superhero. The one who thinks they're smart, sexy, perfect, and just kick ass all the way around.

They act like nothing can possibly hurt them and that your duty in life is to make them feel super great about themselves because they are, after all, the best.

3. The Perfect Lover

This narcissist seems lovely at first because they display incredible care, affection, and perfection to you in the beginning.

They flatter you, give you gifts, and make you love them. As soon as they have you, they use you until they are no longer interested.

They eventually cast you aside as boring. These people are often "gold diggers" as well.

4. The Elitist

This is a type of narcissist that probably came from money and wants to stay that way. They grew up in the lap of luxury and as a result look down on everyone else.

They may seem pragmatic, successful, intelligent, and driven at first, but eventually they demonstrate a desire to one up, brag, and self-promote.

5. The Schemer

This type of narcissist seems like they have good intentions from the start. They do good for people and their community, but there's always something to their kindness.

They expect something in return. And if they don't naturally get it, they'll demand it. If you don't give it to them, get ready for a serious conflict.

How Can An Empath Stop The Damage And Put An End To This Toxic Relationship?

Every attempt to communicate your feelings to a narcissist is a lost cause. Narcissists are very charismatic and manipulative.

They will constantly try to blame the empath for the pain of both parties. They will make the empath feel as though they are responsible for all the problems at hand.

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The Empath Has A Simple Choice

You can either remain as a victim of the narcissist's cruel game, or you can find the needed strength to walk away and put an end to the relationship once and for all.

Empaths needs to accept the fact that a narcissist will never change. Waiting around for a narcissist to become a better person is a waste of precious time.

In the end, the only thing that truly matters is that we let others treat us the way we think we deserve to be treated.

If an empath willing stays in a toxic relationship with a narcissist, they end up thinking that they do not deserve better than that.

This couldn't be farther from the truth. As an empath, you need to understand that is not your job to fix others, especially those who do not want to be fixed.

You cannot fix someone who doesn't think there is anything wrong.

Empaths need to realize that the way they were treated from the different types of narcissists listed above is not a treatment they deserved.

Find the courage to leave the relationship and utterly walk away from the narcissist.

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Why the strongest women often feel so broken inside

Radiating strength and confidence, she seems impervious to the stress and pressures of life. Her problems never look real, even if they are the same problems that tear you to pieces.

No matter what life throws at her- career stumbles, failed romances, family squabbles, you name it- they all roll off of her like water off of a duck's back. Somehow despite it all, she maintains an impeccable veneer of calm and contentment.

Her smile is guaranteed to light up every room she enters. Not only does she remember every special occasion, but she's the first one to show up with a beautifully wrapped and thought out gift.

She's not just the first one to volunteer, but she stays afterward to clean up and make sure everyone has a safe way home.

On the surface, her life is perfect. She has it all. Everything happens as if she planned her life down to the millisecond.

She is a role model not just for young women, but for all women. By all accounts, she is flawless.

But what people fail to realize is that she oozes power and confidence because that is precisely the persona she wants the world to see. It's because she's strong and successful.

But little do they know, that's exactly what she decides to display of her. But behind her carefully constructed wall lies a heart that is holding in the darkness she doesn't want the world to see.

Her pain is locked away, deep down in places nobody could find. And even if they did scratch the surface of her pain, there is no way they could fathom the depths of her sorrow.

After all, why would anyone think she even can feel pain when all anyone sees is energetic bliss?

The only way anyone could begin to comprehend her pain would be to see her at that moment when she collapses on the bed all alone, the darkness her only companion.

She seeks solace in sleep, but the nightmares chase away any chance of relief. Her vulnerabilities bubble to the surface, and it is all she can do not to drown.

She chooses to suffer the slings and arrows of life in solitude, assuming a burden that nobody should have to endure alone. Her resistance comes not from a place of vanity or narcissism, but from abject fear.

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Because everyone believes she is living her best life without any effort or struggle, she does everything in her power to fulfill that perception. Ironically, her perfect life is the roadblock to that very goal.

Despite her perceived invincibility, she is emotionally rotting from within. She is a ticking time bomb.

But in the midst of all of her internal chaos, she loses sight of one critical fact. She is not only powerful, but she has an inner strength far beyond her realization.

She is the person everyone sees because every morning she wakes up and locks her darkest thoughts away. They don't beat her; she overcomes them.

Every single day the battle begins again, but she not only never fails to fight, she never fails to win. And that drive and willingness to sustain the fight makes her every bit as amazing on the inside as she appears on the outside.

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