Uplifting

9 Things You Should No Longer Care About

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Too often in life we don't let our life or focus stay organic and shifting. We often try to live life on our terms, instead of life's terms. We try to change our environment to us when it should be the other way.

Or we let or circumstances change us beyond our genuine expressions. Finding that balance takes a consistent awareness. Below are nine simple reminders to keep your life productive and happy.

Old Regrets

It is important to remember the past, but anything beyond simple recollections can get dicey. Mistakes happen, and they happen to the best of us.

What a person chooses to do after the die was cast, defines our character.

Don't get caught up in 'what could have been' or even worse 'what should have been'. Anything you perceive as a possibility is an illusion powered by fear, desire and ego.

You have those formations here, in the present, affecting you already, why create a double of your enemy?

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Excuses

Our egos make life more complicated than it really is. Our choices for actions are pretty cut and dry, you either achieved a task or you didn't.

Any number of reasons behind why you didn't do something, doesn't change the fact that it didn't get done. You can choose to try again or waste your time and energy making excuses.

What You Do Not Have

Society pressures us into conforming with materialistic gain, making connections to our pride and emotions to enforce that pressure. Some of the perceived gains from material goods don't even make sense.

'If I had a cool, new car, then I could get the woman of my dreams', is a crazy thought.

The car will not make you better person (though Prius owners would argue), can not create a loving relationship, or make you happy in any sustainable and productive way.

We pin spiritual growth on external objects because we are lazy or afraid. We don't want to put forth the effort to make our dream a reality, so we seek to make it look like we are.

We sometimes fear growth because it means a fundamental change and even if we are stuck in a hellish cycle, it is a cycle we are familiar with.

The Need To Feel Safe And Comfortable

The need to always seek safety and the refusal to be uncomfortable, whether spiritually, mentally or physically confuses me. Your comfort zone is an area that you deny reality and reinforce illusions.

In your house, there could be a fire, or aggressive burglar. Among your friends there is the potential for cruelly spoken words. In every situation, there are elements that are out of our control and can hurt us.

Failure

When we don't achieve our goal, we perceive that as a failure. That word though has such heavier emotional content to it than it should.

When were unable to overcome an obstacle we beat ourselves up over it, belittling our self worth until we 'do better'.

You have only failed when you say you have failed. You are the one that frames the terms of your success.

At my rock climbing gym I see people fall all the time (don't worry there are ropes and safety measures). Some people get frustrated and quit.

Others get mad and upset at eh rocks or themselves.

Others laugh about it, get back on the wall and try again. The people who make it to the top are considered successful regardless of whether they fell or threw a fit.

Toxic Or Unrewarding Relationships

The friends we choose are clear reflections of us as individuals. They are the people that can inspire us to do better or drag us down into unproductive patterns.

Being Rewarded All The Time

The happiest people are the ones that can lay their ego aside and work for the greater good. A well developed person doesn't do good deeds for the praise or reward. To them it simply how everyone should act.

They don't rely on an external reward structure to make them feel good or validated.

When you die, everything that you did solely for your benefit dies with you. But everything you made better in your life will continue on to positively influence others.

Judgements

Judgements form quick and easily, without much provocation. Remember that you are seeing a highly subjective illusion version of that person when you judge them.

People project out a version of themselves that they are comfortable with, to hide insecurities, and flaws. Here take people at face value but don't forego your common sense.

The 'End Result'

Life is about the journey, and the means we choose, are as important as the goal. Don't get caught between your projected realities and the people around you.

Remember to breathe!

Sometimes it's hard to keep our eye on the horizon and where your feet are at the same time. You set your pace in life, so just stop, take stock and carry on when you're ready.

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Relationships

Psychology Defines 7 Types Of Love, Yet Only A Rare Few Make It To The Last One

Psychologists have confirmed the average person will experience different types of love through their lives. A study has even shown that a person can fall in love at least three times in their lifetime. Howevr, the type of love that they experience often depends on the one they share it with. Some people bring out deep emotions that cause a whirlwind of a romance, which is sometimes toxic. Others, turn out to be nothing more than companions and are better off as friendships.

However, rare are the people who gets the experience the kind of love that truly feels everlasting, fulfilling and healthy. Find out which kind of love we mean and which type of love your current kind of love falls into

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Infuatuation

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This is the first step of all relationships but it remains on a shallow level. It's usually a fine line between lust and love and infatuation never usually makes it past the lust and into a meaningful connection. Yet, infatuation is often disguised as love and can be confusing.

The more both parties are physically attracted to each other, the more they want to spend all of their time together and move a relationship really quickly from the get-go. However, this kind of relationship is usually short-lived. When relationships get too intense, too quickly, they don't tend to take the time to build a solid enough foundation to grow on, and many of the red flags just get brushed off only to come back later.

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Liking

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This is usually the second stage of a relationship. Once we decide that we are attracted enough to someone, we become open to getting to know them better. From there, the more we get to know them, the more feelings are developed based on what we know. This is still an introductory stage to relationships, because the more layers are peeled, the higher the risk of finding some sort of dealbreaker that ends the relationship there.

During this stage either feelings will develop closer to love, and increase passion or commitment, or they will eventually fade and grow closer to a friendship It all depends on shared values, interests, and needs.

Empty Love

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This is a tricky kind of relationship. On one hand, it is an exclusive relationship with an agreed-upon commitment. Couples experiencing this type of love could spend years on end together but still lack intimacy and passion. They may truly enjoy each other's company and care deeply about one another but still be missing that special spark that makes everything come together.

Over time the relationship becomes comfortable but boring. It's not necessarily that anyone is doing anything wrong, but there is no denying that the relationship is just missing something to make it feel passionate and exciting.

Fatuous Love

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This is the most common type of love as it includes two of the three foundations: commitment and passion. Couples often find that enough to pursue their relationship and exchange their vows. Yet, this kind of relationship despite having attraction lacks true intimacy.

These kinds of relationships go through many ups ad downs, they have their good days but they also have the days where they feel like they're not truly happy or like their needs aren't being fully met. This could be due to differing love languages or because the couple isn't able to reach a high enough level of vulnerability to fully give themselves to someone else.

Romantic Love

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This kind of love has another combination of the three pillars of love: passion and intimacy. The feelings are there and so is the attraction. Couples in this kind of relationship feel really close to one another and it's easy for them to open up. They fall deeply in love, rather quickly and naturally. The only problem is they can't necessarily agree on where the relationship is headed so they just brush it off.

They put off serious commitments hoping to just go with the flow and figure the rest out in time. Unfortunately in many instances, the relationship reaches a termination point because of major commitments that can't be agreed on.

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Companionate Love

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Companionate love consists of commitment and intimacy, another combination that is still lacking. This type of love is somewhere between the line of friendship and love. There is somewhat of an attraction that makes the friendship feel stronger but it's mostly due to the strong bond that's shared. This kind of couple is each other's best friend, They trust each other fully, and are able to be completely themselves.

The attraction is there and the love is genuine but it's missing that head over heels super-in-love kind of feeling. Many relationships develop into this kind of love after many years of marriage.

Consummate Love

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This is the ideal kind of love and yet it is the rarest of all. It is made of all the pillars of the perfect relationship: love passion, emotional and physical intimacy, and commitment. The levels of each vary throughout time but there is enough of each to keep the relationship young even after years of commitment. Arguments are resolved peacefully, affection is given freely and plans of the future are carried out.

These couples are just as in love as the day they met during their final days. They find ways to keep their relationships exciting and keep on surprising one another. They never allow themselves to truly get comfortable and stop appreciating what they have. They trust each other fully while still pursuing their own independence.

Healthy Love

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All that matters in love is that you are happy and the love is healthy. The rest can be developed and worked on with the right person. In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?

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