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8 Incredibly Honest Things Women In Their 40s Want All Women In Their 20s To Know

In our youth obsessed society, we live like we will never die. Getting older we realize how precious time and health truly are.

Hindsight is better than 20/20 vision, but it gives us a calm understanding on events past, out of our reach. It is not too late for those with more expected time.

Take these words to heart and implement them immediately. Tomorrow isn't promised and if you do live through it, you'll want to look back and smile at a job well done.

No one is expecting 'perfection' from you. Just do your best, love your hardest and take care of yourself and those you love.

Love And Accept Yourself More Every Day

The best way to get to know anyone is to approach them with respect, acceptance and love.

If you want to maximize your time, then love yourself to the best of your ability, respect yourself as a strong competent person and accept all your aspects.

The more you do this, the more you'll be able to express yourself genuinely.

Feed Your Soul

Take the time to feed and nurture your spirit.

Finding something you're passionate about is a great way to continue to grow. If you can't do your passion yet or don't know what it is, trial and error is your friend.

It's better to be trying new activities and meeting new people, than sitting at home fantasizing.

Stop Comparing

We all do it, but that doesn't make it right. There are a lot of external sources trying to prompt comparisons: magazines, television, and fashion, to name a few. Resist and refrain my friend!

All comparisons are based off assumptions and illusions. We are people and we all have 'faults'. You are so focused on yours you can't see theirs clearly.

Forget Expectations

Expectations are the perfect way to give our fears power and limit our future options. The future is unknown, so we project our desires and hope.

The happiest you will ever be is living in the moment. The future is coming and when it gets here you'll handle it.

Live To Work, Don't Work To Live

Don't forget the money is a means to an end. The money sucks but the food, shelter and creature comforts are nice.

Keep in mind that most of the material goods you have, you don't really need. Everything you've bought you paid for with your irreplaceable time. Think about that.

Save Money

Sometimes everything is perfectly fine until it isn't. We can easily forget how fast things can get bad. You or someone you love gets ill, your car breaks, a natural disaster occurs.

Having a financial pillow can be a lifesaver, not just for you but those you care about as well.

Embrace Change

When you stop fighting the idea of impermanence, it's easier to breathe deep and stop wasting energy.

All things are bound to change, nothing lasts forever. It's easier to face the future, if it's not what you want it won't be around forever.

Stop Caring What Others Think

This is a biggie. We give others power us when we care what they think. There is enough turbulence in everyone's mind and hearts that you don't need an ill informed person adding to it.

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Are You Absolutely Sure Someone Doesn't Want You Dead?

The story of a woman who never thought her husband would want her dead

Consider this your warning that the following story is not for the faint of hearts. It's the true chilling story of a woman who thought she had finally had found love, and married a man she met on a dating app. She was even seemingly happy with him for over a decade having no idea that just like his past wife, he ultimately wanted her dead. With popular television shows like You on Netflix, we've normalized creepy partners who harm in the name of love.

People are good at hiding their true colors, so when you look around at your loved ones, are you absolutely sure that no one wants you dead?

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Let's Go Back To The First Marriage

​Harold Henthorn met his first wife, Lynn Rishell, in college. Those close to her say that she had a kind personality and it was shown in her work a social worker. Lynn and Harold were married for 12 years before she died, keep in mind this magic number.

Not only is the number of years of their marriage interesting to note, but so are the circumstances of the tragedy that ended her life.

Harold And Lynn Were On A Night Drive

Harold and Lynn with car

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On May 6, 1995, Harold and Lynn went on a nighttime drive along a highway in Colorado. They stopped to fix a flat tire.

Harold's story goes that while changing the tire, Lynn went under the car to get a lug nut that she dropped. Conveniently at the same time, Harold happened to throw the flat tire into the trunk of the Jeep. Allegedly this caused for the car to fall off the jack, crushing Lynn under the car. Lynn then died in the hospital from what they deemed to be a tragic car accident.

Harold Got Away With It

Lynn''s family and friends noticed that Harold's story kept changing the more that he was asked about it. Not being able to assume the worse, but they figured he was upset and grieving and left it at that.

From a legal perspective, The Douglas County Sheriff's Office closed the case and labeled Lynn's death an accident.

Then Harold Met His Second Wife, Toni

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It didn't take long after Lynn's passing before Harold found himself ready to go back on the market. Five years later, he signed up for a Christian dating website where he met Toni and married her.

Toni was often described as an extremely smart woman by those who know her. The 38-year-old worked as an ophthalmologist while the man she thought would be the love of her life described himself as an entrepreneur. Toni was involved in her Christian community even teaching Sunday school and singing in the choir.

Toni's Family Thought Harold Was Sketchy

​Toni's family worried that Harold was controlling and that he could even be manipulating Toni with threats. Not only would he intercept all phone calls to the house but he made Toni move from her hometown to separate her from her family. Toni didn't want to move but she was afraid to suffer the consequences if she said no.

Even Toni's coworkers started to notice that Harold was inserting himself in all of Toni's life to control her.

A Trip To Celebrate Their 12th Anniversary

​Remember how we mentioned magic number 12? You think you'd really know a person 12 years later. This couple even had a child together by then. Harold decided he wanted to surprise Toni with a trip to Rocky Mountain National Park to celebrate their anniversary. He even had his office manager help him plan it and film the surprise reveal to his wife.

Toni had no idea this hike would see her last breath. Somehow when hiking, Toni experienced a dreadful accident and fell 140 feet to her death.

An Attempt To Look Innocent

text exchange

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Harold texted Toni's brother on the scene to let him know of the accident, thinking that this would not make him look guilty. Except when investigating the so-called accident, the investigator learned of the unusual circumstances that Harold's first wife Lynn had also died. They reopened the case and changed the cause of death to "undermined."

Finally, two years after Toni's fatal fall, Harold's true intentions were uncovered and he was arrested and charged for his crimes.

Two Women Bound By The Same Fate

Lynn and Toni Henthorn were not only connected by tragedy but with their final resting spot. Harold spread both their ashes, 17 years apart, in the same spot.

In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?

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What Was In It For Harold?

Both Harold's first wife and Toni had large insurance policies taken out on them by Harold Himself. If his plan had worked he would have inherited $4.7 million from Toni's death. He even took his own daughter off the insurance policy so that all the money would go to him.

Just when you thought the story couldn't get worse, the investigation revealed that Harold's supposed career as a successful "entrepreneur" wasn't even real. He hadn't actually worked in decades and had no income...

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