Relationships

You Want A Partner Not A Project

6 Signs Your Partner Is A Keeper

We all want to find the one, but it's so much harder than it should be. If you're anything like me, your romantic entanglements of the past have been disappointing, and it can be difficult to find the motivation to keep searching for the right partner. However, if we didn't spend time making the connections we know don't work, we'd never be able to recognize the connections that are worth making.

The most frustrating aspect of finding a long-term partner is not knowing who's long-term material and who isn't; how can you tell if you've found someone worth spending a significant amount of time with?

Here are six signs that you've found a partner worth keeping.

1. You Share Common Interests

When you meet someone you like, you need to make sure that you share some common interests before getting too serious.

Chances are, you already have at least one common interest or you wouldn't have met, but it's important to find a few more.

If you commit to a relationship with someone who doesn't enjoy doing the same things you enjoy doing, you'll find out that it's hard to make time for one another.

Learn how to keep your partner coming back for more, click here and watch this free video from relationship expert, Amy North.

2. They Know and Accept Their Flaws

Self-awareness is important in a long-term partner. Not only is it attractive in a person, but it also means that the person you've found is realistic.

Obviously no one is perfect, so it's important to recognize this, accept what can't be changed, and focus on the positives in life.

You don't want to be with someone who's stuck in the past or constantly focusing on the things they can't do.

3. They Can Make You Laugh

Laughing makes you feel good, it relaxes you, and it can be just what you need after a long day.

If you aren't with someone who can make you laugh or who shares your sense of humor, the relationship can get boring fast.

However, it's hard to find someone who can make you laugh in the face of stress, but when you do, you know you're close to finding a keeper.

4. They're Different Enough

Although you want to find a partner who shares your interests, you also want to find a partner who's different from you, at least a little bit.

Having someone in your life who challenges you to try new things keeps the relationship exciting.

If you're dating an exact replica of yourself, it can start out great, but get incredibly boring within a few months.

5. They're Supportive but Independent

You want to find someone who supports your career and life goals, but you also want to find a partner who has their independence.

Sure, you may share some similarities, but it's perfectly normal to be with someone who has their own hopes and dreams independent of your own.

The only time this is a problem is when they crush your dreams in order to reach their own.

6. They Communicate

Communication is the key to a healthy, long-lasting relationship. If you're with someone who can communicate, they're worth keeping around simply for that reason.

Being able to express one's emotions is difficult, which is why it's important to practice when you get the chance.

Communication will keep things from getting bottled up, and it will keep fights from erupting out of nowhere.

For more great relationship advice and tips, watch this video from relationship expert Amy North: Click Here To Watch The Full Video.

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Spirituality

How To Be More Confident In Just 5 Minutes, Try It

We're Not Born With It

We weren't born confident. Confidence is a quality we need to cultivate by thinking outside of the box and refusing to live only to please others. Think back to when you were a child. You didn't need to be confident then, you simply cried when things didn't go your way. But, as you grew up, you start to notice the impact of how others see you and you become self-conscious. We're the ones that give power to others by letting what they think to dictate our confidence when really it's how we feel about ourselves that will radiate confidence.

That's why all it takes to be more confident is five minutes designed to rewire your thought pattern to bring the attention back where it belongs.

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Strike A Power Pose

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Guess what? No one is confident all the time. Not even those who have a full makeup and hair team every single day. The key is knowing how to switch confidence back on when it seems fleeting. You can actually trick your own brain.

Go into a room where you can be alone. It helps if there's a mirror. Then extend your arms up in a "V" shape. Stand as tall and as big as you possibly can. This is called the Victory stance and is a power pose. Keep your feet shoulder-width apart ad your chin up, and stand there in silence for two whole minutes. It might feel awkward for the first 30 seconds, but it'll fix your posture, bring a smile to your face and restore your confidence. Take that power out the door with you by keeping your head held high and your body standing straight.

Maintain Eye Contact

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Eye Contact is arguably the most powerful form of communication. When interacting with others, looking them in the eye makes them feel seen and acknowledges every word they say. When you keep your gaze fixated on them, after a while you genuinely stop noticing everything happening around them, and in a way you make them feel like the only person in the world.

You can do the same thing to yourself. Stand by a mirror and stare straight into your own and watch the world melt away. Remind yourself with the intention that at this moment all that matters is you. Everything else is on hold because to face it, you need to first check-in with yourself. You have all the power to make that happen because you love yourself, you have a purpose, and you matter. Remember who you are and ground yourself.

Are you still searching for your life purpose? The numerology of your birth date, regardless of what month you were born, can reveal surprising information about your personality.

Lose The "Ums"

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A confident person articulates and speaks with intention. Instead of blurting out whatever comes to mind, show assertiveness by taking a second to think before you speak. Not only will this help you lose the ums and uhs but it will make what you say seem more valuable. the same goes for awkward giggles at the end of a sentence.

Laughing when you're done is like saying that everything you just said was a joke and completely discredits you. You can practice this even as you think. Train your thought patterns so they flow.

Relive Your Most Glorious Moment

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This step is most beneficial at the moment right before you're about to be in the spotlight. Close your eyes. Think of the last time that you were proud of yourself in a situation. Remember how you felt, what you said, and why you did it.

Remember how successful you were and how capable you are of creating such success. Imagine all the details of that last moment of success and take the confidence it brings you into your next glorious moment.

Recreate Your Environment

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Do you know why some people who spend their days in offices aren't happy no matter how much money they make? It's because of their environment, constantly being in front of a screen and between four walls. Some research shows that taking even just two minutes to walk in greenery can completely change your mood. Remember that happiness is confidence so you want to be stimulating your brain and its perception of the world in every way that you can.

Whenever you're running low on confidence go and connect with nature, or experience a new place, or just change your environment to somewhere that makes you feel good and watch how it changes your mood. This then will reflect in how you present yourself to others.

Reframe Your Breath

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​When you're anxious and experiencing low self-esteem, your breathing physically changes. You start breathing heavily, and faster. The more shallow your breathing becomes, the worst you feel.

Instead, try breathing deeply with intention. Stand up and breathe in for five seconds, completely filling your diaphragm, and then breath out for another five seconds. As you take control of your breath, start visualizing a future where you are in control. Tell yourself "I breath in peace and I breath out anxiety" If you do this for a couple of minutes, you should feel relaxed and in control afterward.

Stop Chasing Someone Else's Ideal

If you're looking for a sign on whether you need a change then you're here for a reason. This is your sign.

Take a quick zodiac reading here to find out what your universe has to say about you right now. Understand your purpose and your potential so that you can take control of your emotions, your life, and your future by clicking HERE. The time to become your most confident self is now!