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10 Traits of Highly Likable People
There are people out there who are seemingly irresistible. It's not just their outward appearance, but the way they carry themselves that make them attractive.
It's not just you who feels a pull in their direction, but everyone they're around. These people exude confidence, kindness, charisma, and intelligence.
Here are ten habits that make an irresistible person irresistible.
1. They Treat Others How They Want
Everyone knows the golden rule, but irresistible people follow the platinum rule; they treat others how those people would like to be treated.
Not everyone wants to be treated the same way, so it's foolish to try.
2. They Have Integrity
Irresistible people have integrity, which makes you question your own.
They seem to understand what matters, and they would never try to sway you into thinking anything other than the truth.
Principle, honesty, and goodness are virtues they hold dearly.
3. They Have Compassion
Compassionate people are likable people, which is why irresistible people practice compassion in almost every situation.
In order to be liked, you have to be empathetic to another person's perspective, and that takes a great deal of compassion.
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4. They're Always Smiling
No one likes to be around someone who doesn't want to be around them.
Irresistible people are always smiling; they make you feel like they would rather be nowhere else than with you, in the present moment.
5. They Love Life
If you were successful, charming, and genuine, wouldn't you love life? Irresistible people enjoy life's ups and downs and they know that it's priceless.
Living life means taking chances, loving others, and cherishing the moment.
6. They Cherish Togetherness
Irresistible people don't try and keep people away from each other, in fact, they do the opposite.
They create connections between people who are like-minded, and they genuinely want people to succeed.
No one should be alone, and irresistible people understand this well.
7. They Value Hard Work
Perhaps one of the most likable qualities of an irresistible person is that they know that hard work creates success.
You'll never see an irresistible person asking for handout; they know they need to work harder than anyone else in order to achieve their goals, and that's exactly what they do.
8. They Truly Listen
It's hard to find someone who is truly willing to listen to you.
Irresistible people don't just wait for their turn to speak, they really want to listen to you so that they can help, empathize, show compassion, or provide meaningful advice.
This isn't a quality many people have or share with others.
9. Manners Matter
An irresistible person always conducts his or herself with manners and politeness.
They never miss an opportunity to say "please" or "thank you," which is incredibly attractive.
The little things go a long way, and they work on making people feel good whenever they see the chance.
10. They're Real
Not everyone is as genuine as they should be. We've all experienced someone who's fake, but an irresistible truly lives the life you see.
Their self-confidence is extremely high, and that's because they aren't trying to impress the people around them.
That in itself is impressive.
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