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Real Life “Butterfly Effect” Stories That Show That What Goes Around Really Comes Back Around

Are you familiar with the butterfly effects? In fancy terms, it's a property of chaotic systems that believes that small changes in initial conditions can lead to large-scale and unpredictable variation in the future state of the system. Now in simpler terms, it's the idea that small things can have big effects. The name comes from the image of a butterfly that causes a typhoon by simply flapping its wins.

We all should consider the butterfly effect in the way that we live our lives. The effect teaches is that even the small things matter. Everything we do matters and is connected to a bigger system. What we do today has a reaction of its own while also being the result of previous actions and so on. Remember that even with a small gesture, you have the power to change someone's life and these stories are the proof.

No Such Thing As Coincidences, No Matter How Small

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"When I was in 8th grade (13 years old) I had a really long bus ride home so would pass the time by reading. One day I faced the very serious situation of nothing to read and had a minute to grab something in the library, and for whatever reason I grabbed a book on astronomy. That book was amazing and grabbed me like nothing else had before. I remember being excited to realize every astronomer on Earth was 13 years old once too, and that was a career you could actually do, even if you were from Pittsburgh.

Anyway, today I am a professional astronomer who studies gigantic space explosions for a living. There was a lot of work to get from that moment to this one, but I’m always grateful that I picked up that library book!" - Andromeda321 / Reddit

Even Sickness Has A Purpose

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"I had to call my heart surgeon to give him my new insurance number (I had only just gotten them because the person who had them had the flu and was not getting back to me). the receptionist said, 'oh, hey, we just had a cancelation for this Friday, do you want it?' Of course I wanted to get it over and not wait another month. I decided to take the open heart surgery cancelation appointment (a month before my actual appointment).

Once my surgeon got a look inside, he realized I would not have survived to the original appointment date. So, if the insurance lady didn't have the flu, I would have gotten those numbers a lot sooner, and never gotten the offer to have the surgery when I did.


Someone else's flu saved my life." - myeggsarebig / Reddit

One Person's Loss, Is Another's Gain

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"Made a last-minute decision to go to a friend's divorce party and met my wife." - groundedcloudhead From each deemed failure, mistake, life lesson, struggle, or any other kind of negative event, comes something beautiful. Sometimes, the purpose behind them is bigger than just you.

Sometimes an event in your life not only changes yours but the life of others around as well. You never know who you'll meet through the people you chose to keep around you

Mistakes Lead To Creations

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"My existence.

When my dad was about 20, he needed a phone number so he called the operator from a payphone, she gave him the number, he hung up, and she accidentally refunded the money back to the payphone. She called the payphone back and asked him if he could put the money back in, which he did and hung up again. She accidentally refunded the money again and had to call back again to ask him to put the money back in; he did and hung up again.

She was so flustered, she refunded the money again and called back again and my father got to chatting with her and got her number. They set up a date and four years later were married. It's been 50 years.

If my dad didn't need that phone number, I wouldn't be here." - A911owner

It's All About Taking Chances, And Saying Yes

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"I had to renew the sticker on my license plate a couple of years ago and really didn't feel like sitting in the waiting room by myself forever so I told my mom I'd take her out to dinner after if she came with me. The guy working at the counter turned out to be my mom's long-lost biological brother. If she hadn't come with me I would have never known." Mutchie / Reddit

They say that the best way to live and never miss on opportunities is to always say yes when presented with one, no matter how small. You're unlikely to grow or meet anyone that aligns you with your path if you stay home alone. Even a simple trip to someone else's appointment can have a hidden purpose for you too.

Trust Your Intuition

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"Was going to carpool with my aunt to a family gathering. At the last minute, I decided to go by myself so I could leave early if I wanted. It was a way out of town and I didn’t want to be stuck there. On the way there she drove off the road into a ditch. She was ok but the passenger side of her car was totally smashed in." discostud1515 / Reddit

There are countless stories like this where a missed flight to a dream vacation was disappointing in the moment but turned out to save them from a flight crash. Trust your gut when it pushes you forward but also when it holds you back, you might not find out the reason behind the feeling till after the fact.

How Will You Change Someone's Life?

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If you're looking for more information on how your specific path can have a ripple effect on the world around, will take its y, then you'll need your own zodiac reading. We're each on our own unique path but there is one destined for each one of us.

Take a quick zodiac reading here to find out what your universe has to say about you right now. Understand your purpose and your potential so that you can take control of your emotions, your life, and your future by clicking HERE.

Relationships

The Four Zodiac Signs That Make The Best Husbands

Women give a lot of time and thought to their idea of the best husband. Most would agree that he must be caring, loyal, attentive, understanding, and independent. No woman is looking to marry a man-child who is just looking for someone to mother him while he contributes the bare minimum. The tricky part is that most men are skilled at charming women into thinking that they will give them the world only to later find out that this was nothing but a facade, an idea they presented but had no intention of maintaining.

Luckily astrology has shown that some signs hold traits and characteristics within their core that naturally give them an advantage. Their personalities hold the traits of the best husbands.

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Aries: A Man On An Honest Mission

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​Aries is the kind of man who steps up to the plate without waiting for an invitation. You don't need to ask him twice to take out the trash, because he loves to take charge and be proactive. When they're at their best, Aries men want to become the financial head of their family. They want to ensure that they are working independently to provide and care for the one they love to the best of their abilities.

What makes Aries men great husbands is that they take care of themselves first so that they can actually care for a partner. Sometimes this means that they'll avoid relationships and stay single for long periods of time before they feel like they're in the right place for marriage. However, they tend to be honest about where they are along their path and with their intentions, making them easy to trust and later upfront husbands. You usually don't have to play guessing games, as they'll lay out their cards for you straight on the table.

Leo: Carefree Nature

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Leo men usually have a carefree nature and are happy to do their own thing while letting their partner do theirs. They are easy to plan with and communicate with because they are just happy if you are happy. They're not the jealous type or the overprotective kind that needs you home by a certain time and feels the need to check your phone when you're not looking. The trusting and natural connection they build makes for healthy relationships where both partners are independent in their own ways but can unite in an equal partnership.

Leos are also known to be courageous. Their carefree nature allows them to take risks without overthinking the outcomes. They are likely to go out of their way to make the first moves and put in the effort. They will make their wives feel supported, protected, and lifted.

Virgo: Supportive And Thoughtout

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A Virgo man is husband material because he actually takes the time to think things through. He doesn't rush into relationships and commitments unless he truly feels that it is right. This means that once he chooses the woman he wants to marry, he becomes entirely loyal and dedicated to her. He's willing to work through the hard times and doesn't give up easily. He takes time during arguments to think of logical responses rather than fight in the heat of the moment.

Virgo men are good at providing validation and reminding their wives that they are loved and cared for. They take their hard work ethic with them in their relationships because they understand that love is a muscle that needs to be trained in order to keep functioning at a healthy level. When Virgo men make a promise, they keep it forever.

Take a quick zodiac reading here to find out what your universe has to say about you right now.

Taurus: Protective Of The Heart

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​A Taurus man is both caring and loyal. He is the kind of husband who will always reassure you that he's on your team. He wants to face all your problems with you, not against you. You can count on him when you need support or even just a little help around the house. His reliability means that he always shows up, and remembers birthdays and anniversaries.

Taurus men have a great moral compass that easily guides them in their relationships. They hate to disappoint you so they go out of their way to make sure that you know how much they are trying to love you. Taurus is a romantic at heart, which makes him the ideal partner for a stable relationship that doesn't get comfortable and boring. From the moment he marries the woman he loves, he becomes protective of her heart

Cancer: A Lover Of Love

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Cancer men can't help but love everything about love. They can come off as needy but they are just craving to be loved the same intense, everything in, passionate way that they give love. They are emotional and sentimental making them some of the most romantic partners. They love to surprise their wives with flowers, or acts of service without being asked, just to see her smile at the end of the day.

They give a lot of affection and actually enjoy spending quality time with their wives. They are not confrontational and are great communicators. Marriages with them tend to be calm and patient because they don't let issues bottle up and talk calmly whenever there is an issue. They are genuinely kind and make caring partners.

Get Personal And Break The Cycle

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We don't blame you for being frustrated with dating but if you're struggling to find and keep a quality man click here to find out how to break the cycle. In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?

Love is more than just kisses and butterflies, it's much more than that. If you want to know more on what your birth chart reveals about how you love and what you need out of a partner, check out this personalized report based on date of birth.

For more great relationship advice and tips on how to attain the kind of love you deserve, watch this video from expert, Amy North: Click Here To Watch The Full Video.