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If You See Something Beautiful

7 Highly Attractive Habits (That Have Nothing To Do With Appearance)

When it comes to the types of people we each find attractive, the saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" could not be more true.

Sure, there are some universally attractive people that exhibit your conventionally attractive features, but even those differ from culture to culture and race to race.

Many of us have no idea what makes a person attractive to us. Sometimes when we know, we just know. It's hard to dive into the world of attraction because it's caused by so many different factors.

It could be something emotional, or something strictly physical, something rational or completely irrational. However, there are a few traits that seem to be universally attractive, and they have nothing to do with looks.

Our looks are more than just a our physical expressions. A person can have the most beautiful of features, but their personality is so selfish or greedy or cruel or whatever negativity that person carries with them paints their features.

You too, project your inner self with your thoughts and intentions. Below we've gathered some ways to project all the unique inner beauty you have stored away!

Confidence

It's the most universally acknowledged and shared turn on. Doesn't matter your gender, culture, age or race, confidence is a must and the best plus.

We want a confident partner because we want to be with a strong and capable person.

It's OK if you aren't the most confident person ever, it's important that you be able to know your strengths and weaknesses. The advice on confidence is fake it till you make it.

This is good advice but don't try to hard to be something you're not. Be careful to not be full of yourself either.

Sincerity and Openness

When we are with someone sensually: nude, exposed, expressing ourselves on so many levels, it's important to keep it simple and honest. Be yourself, prepared to accept and love your partner.

If you two don't express yourselves, what you want, what you fear, what you enjoy, the development of you and your relationship will be slow and painstaking.

Let it be a freeing, compassionate, and revealing expression between the two of you.

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Sense of Humor

It makes sense that humor is a trait that almost everyone looks for in their partner because laughing is something we all like to do.

It can be incredibly important for a person to be able to laugh at themselves or make light of an unfortunate situation, because life is hard and full of uncertainty.

You have to be able to lighten up every now and then. No one wants to hang out with someone who's serious all the time.

Laughter is an essential part of life. Cultivate it, share it, enjoy it, and seek it. Life is infinite and amazing. We need to be reminded to loosen up and enjoy what we can.

With humor we can face normally painful or difficult parts of life or yourself. We can brighten a bleak attitude or stack joy on someone's happiness. This trait is one of the top three that I really value in my partner.

Having Passion

Passion is something that we're all searching for in this lifetime, so to see someone who's found it can be incredibly attractive.

Passion gives us something to live for. When we're passionate about something, figuring out life becomes much easier. It provides clarity, guidance and purpose.

What is life without passion? I hope to never personally know! Sometimes we feel lackluster or severely energetic. Being passionate doesn't mean that you go ham or full throttle 24/7, it means you care.

You care deeply for the other person and your relationship. You are willing to do whatever is necessary to be happy and bring happiness to those you love and respect.

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Being Decisive

As mentioned previously, life is all but certain. When a person is assertive and makes good decisions for themselves (and others), it indicates that they have an idea of where they're going and what they're doing. They have direction.

This trait is becoming increasingly hard to find, which makes it particularly attractive when looking for a mate.

You don't have to have all the answers, but your answers are never as awful as 'I don't know' or 'Whatever you want to'. If asked a question don't deflect it. If you can't answer it directly or specifically, then explain what's going on.

Kindness

Many people view kindness as one of the most important traits a person can have, because it's often seen as a measurement of how good a person they are.

When a person shows the same kindness to strangers as they do their friends and family, it's a sign that they're just genuinely good-natured, and will likely act the same toward you.

Once you really start comfortably expressing a majority of these traits this one will come naturally. It's important that you feel comfortable in your skin and voice.

You won't have 'your' look picked out on the first day, it's a constantly evolving image.

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Accept Your Partner's Friends, Or At Least Make The Sincere Effort

Don't try to force a friendship between you and your partner's friends. Don't disrespect or pander to them. Continue to be yourself and support your partner.

The focus is always making sure the two of you feel supported by each other.Have you ever talked to someone who is so closed-minded that they refuse to even listen to what others have to say?

Being closed-minded is a trait that often indicates a person is ignorant, which is an absolute turn-off for most of us.

Open minds are capable of bridging the gaps that closed-minded people try to make bigger. Open minds help resolve issues across certain divisions of groups.

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Psychology Defines 7 Types Of Love, Yet Only A Rare Few Make It To The Last One

Psychologists have confirmed the average person will experience different types of love through their lives. A study has even shown that a person can fall in love at least three times in their lifetime. Howevr, the type of love that they experience often depends on the one they share it with. Some people bring out deep emotions that cause a whirlwind of a romance, which is sometimes toxic. Others, turn out to be nothing more than companions and are better off as friendships.

However, rare are the people who gets the experience the kind of love that truly feels everlasting, fulfilling and healthy. Find out which kind of love we mean and which type of love your current kind of love falls into

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Infuatuation

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This is the first step of all relationships but it remains on a shallow level. It's usually a fine line between lust and love and infatuation never usually makes it past the lust and into a meaningful connection. Yet, infatuation is often disguised as love and can be confusing.

The more both parties are physically attracted to each other, the more they want to spend all of their time together and move a relationship really quickly from the get-go. However, this kind of relationship is usually short-lived. When relationships get too intense, too quickly, they don't tend to take the time to build a solid enough foundation to grow on, and many of the red flags just get brushed off only to come back later.

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Liking

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This is usually the second stage of a relationship. Once we decide that we are attracted enough to someone, we become open to getting to know them better. From there, the more we get to know them, the more feelings are developed based on what we know. This is still an introductory stage to relationships, because the more layers are peeled, the higher the risk of finding some sort of dealbreaker that ends the relationship there.

During this stage either feelings will develop closer to love, and increase passion or commitment, or they will eventually fade and grow closer to a friendship It all depends on shared values, interests, and needs.

Empty Love

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This is a tricky kind of relationship. On one hand, it is an exclusive relationship with an agreed-upon commitment. Couples experiencing this type of love could spend years on end together but still lack intimacy and passion. They may truly enjoy each other's company and care deeply about one another but still be missing that special spark that makes everything come together.

Over time the relationship becomes comfortable but boring. It's not necessarily that anyone is doing anything wrong, but there is no denying that the relationship is just missing something to make it feel passionate and exciting.

Fatuous Love

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This is the most common type of love as it includes two of the three foundations: commitment and passion. Couples often find that enough to pursue their relationship and exchange their vows. Yet, this kind of relationship despite having attraction lacks true intimacy.

These kinds of relationships go through many ups ad downs, they have their good days but they also have the days where they feel like they're not truly happy or like their needs aren't being fully met. This could be due to differing love languages or because the couple isn't able to reach a high enough level of vulnerability to fully give themselves to someone else.

Romantic Love

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This kind of love has another combination of the three pillars of love: passion and intimacy. The feelings are there and so is the attraction. Couples in this kind of relationship feel really close to one another and it's easy for them to open up. They fall deeply in love, rather quickly and naturally. The only problem is they can't necessarily agree on where the relationship is headed so they just brush it off.

They put off serious commitments hoping to just go with the flow and figure the rest out in time. Unfortunately in many instances, the relationship reaches a termination point because of major commitments that can't be agreed on.

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Companionate Love

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Companionate love consists of commitment and intimacy, another combination that is still lacking. This type of love is somewhere between the line of friendship and love. There is somewhat of an attraction that makes the friendship feel stronger but it's mostly due to the strong bond that's shared. This kind of couple is each other's best friend, They trust each other fully, and are able to be completely themselves.

The attraction is there and the love is genuine but it's missing that head over heels super-in-love kind of feeling. Many relationships develop into this kind of love after many years of marriage.

Consummate Love

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This is the ideal kind of love and yet it is the rarest of all. It is made of all the pillars of the perfect relationship: love passion, emotional and physical intimacy, and commitment. The levels of each vary throughout time but there is enough of each to keep the relationship young even after years of commitment. Arguments are resolved peacefully, affection is given freely and plans of the future are carried out.

These couples are just as in love as the day they met during their final days. They find ways to keep their relationships exciting and keep on surprising one another. They never allow themselves to truly get comfortable and stop appreciating what they have. They trust each other fully while still pursuing their own independence.

Healthy Love

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All that matters in love is that you are happy and the love is healthy. The rest can be developed and worked on with the right person. In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?

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