Relationships

6 signs you’re in a relationship with the wrong person

Finding the right person to be with can be difficult. It's often a long, drawn-out process that really only works through trial and error. This means that the only way to find out if it's a mistake, is to go ahead and make it. It may not seem like the most logical option, but it is certainly effective.

The early weeks or months of a relationship can also be confusing. We're basically buzzing from the happiness chemicals that our brains release at this time, high on the honeymoon phase, if you will.

Any relationship can get by on this phenomenon for a brief period, but eventually the infatuation will fade and if there isn't more substantial connection there, things can go south quickly.

If you find yourself in a relationship and you notice these 6 things happening, you may need to accept that this just isn't the right person for you, and move on.

1. You feel annoyance and resentment for them.

Partners have little fights and get bothered with each other sometimes in any relationship, but you've started to get exceedingly annoyed or frustrated with your partner for small things that never came up before.

When you find yourself getting angry or feeling resentful toward them for things they can't even help, tiny personal habits or things entirely outside of their control, you need to consider that this relationship just isn't going to work.

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2. You can't have a conversation without placing blame.

It seems like every other conversation you have is more like a fight, and somehow you can't stop trying to fault your partner for every little thing that ever goes wrong.

When they think about why the relationship isn't working, all they see are your issues, and it's exactly the same for you.

At this point it doesn't even matter what you're arguing about, it always turns into the both of you blaming the other.

3. You can't find common ground anymore.

You know there must have been a time when you had things to talk about and hobbies that you could enjoy together, but somehow now you can't remember what those things were.

Every time you try to suggest an activity or event to share, they seem uninterested, and nothing they want to do sounds enjoyable to you either.

Maybe you had strong chemistry or physical attraction at the beginning, but now it seems there's nothing of substance between you.

4. You don't feel like yourself.

You spend all your time and extra energy trying to figure out how to make your relationship work and mostly it feels like you're doing it in vain.

You know you're not really acting like yourself and you can't figure out if it's because you're so tense and unhappy or if you've changed into someone you don't know while trying to please another person.

A good relationship helps you comfortably grow into the person you're supposed to be, not just into somebody you don't recognize.

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5. You can't help but think of being with someone else.

You might not be trying to fantasize about other people, but the thought seems to come up out of nowhere when you're zoned out or even in your dreams while you sleep.

Even if you aren't actually cheating on your partner with anyone in reality, constantly toying with the idea in your head is a clear sign that you don't want to be with this person anymore.

You probably can't help yourself, it's just your brain's way of coping with the unhappiness.

6. You've given up.

The true kiss of death for any relationship isn't hatred or vehement emotion, it's indifference.

If you still feel pain or anger or sadness at the thought of your relationship ending, you may still have a fighting chance, but if ending things doesn't make you feel anything at all, you can pack it in.

Pure apathy toward your partner/relationship denotes a lack of even the slightest attachment. If this is how you're feeling, the kindest thing you can do is end it before you waste another hour of your time or theirs.

You both deserve a chance at being with the right person, and you're not getting that by staying together.

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Uplifting

Man Buys Stranger's Groceries When Overhearing Her Tell Her Daughter They Can't Afford To Eat That Night

Kindness is within us all

A man has recently been getting attention online for his inspiring act. One night, while he was minding his own business, he was confronted with a family in need. He had two options. He could have done the same thing everyone else did in the store and let them figure it out for themselves, or he could be their hero that day and help them out within his means.

The thing is, the man didn't have much money himself, and he was working two jobs to support himself and his kid. Here's how he decided on what to do.

Meet Bear, A Man Who Works Double Shifts To Live

Bear's shirtless selfie covered in tattoos and smirking

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It was a day like most for Bear, as he had just pulled two fourteen-hour shifts in a row and needed some food, but had no energy left to make it. He writes this on a post on Facebook and explains that this actually didn't turn out to be like most days: I stopped by the grocery store to grab food for dinner and as I was checking out a woman started crying in the next checkout line."

Bear listened in on the conversation between a mother and her daughter, and it was heartbreaking.

The Little Girl Asked Her Mom Why She Was Crying

woman walks with basket in grocery store with empty aisle

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At first, it's easy to assume the mom is just having a bad day, maybe she got into a fight with her husband or is tired from looking after her kid. As he listened in, ge overheard the girl ask her mom what was wrong, as she continued to stand crying in the lane right next to hers.

"Her daughter asked her what's wrong and she all she could say was, 'we can't afford to eat tonight.''" These are the words that no parent wants to imagine ever needing to say to their child, who depends on them just to live. Yet, it is the unfortunate case for many.

Food Insecurity Is A Real Problem

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Food insecurity is a problem for many families across the country. This problem has gotten even worse with the pandemic as many families who relied on their small businesses had to shut down and couldn't make do anymore.

Even then, this problem existed before the pandemic and still continues today. In fact, the U.S Department of Agriculture reports that 10.5 percent (13.8 million) of U.S. households were food insecure at some time during 2020 and this number is unchanged from 2019.

This Time It Would Be Different

Bear and son take selfie in the city with red masks on

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For a lot of food-insecure families, they simply would have had to walk out of that grocery store empty-handed, with a kid possibly going to bed hungry that night. For this mom, kindness was in the cards, At first, another person who also overheard her gave them a few dollars towards their groceries.

But Bear knew she needed more than that. He walked over to the mom and her daughter and told them he would pay for their food and to get whatever they want. He writes on Facebook: "A person behind her gave her a couple of dollars and she bought her daughter a Kids Cuisine TV dinner. I told her to grab what she wants, I'll pay for it."

All In Divine Timing

walart staff stands in front of entrance with "thank you" sign

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Was Bear's presence in that mothert's life at that time and place just a coincidence? Bear doesn't think so. He explains that he never actually shops at that store but for whatever reason, he felt inclined to do so that night. He think the reason for it comes down to divine timing…

"I NEVER stop at this Walmart. I'm simply saying GOD puts you where he needs you to be WHEN he needs you to be there"

People Find Bear Inspiring

Bear and son pose for picture while sitting on green chair

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Bear's Facebook post has gotten a lot of attention as many who read it are inspired by his selfless act. For all he knows, he could have saved that family that night.

"That's my little Brother doing what moms told us to do when women and children are in need, we help them out with whatever they need. GOD put you in the right place last night. Thanks for helping a woman and her children with the food they need to eat so they don't go hungry. God's got you," a person commented.

Whether it was a divine intervention or simply the actions of a kind man, it brought good into the world and we only hope things like this continue to happen to make it a better place.

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