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7 Signs You're A Healer Without Even Knowing

Being a healer is a big responsibility. It's a calling to serve a higher purpose. There is a deep human need for emotional balance, being spiritually connected, having a healthy mind, and looking for a purpose. However, the more time goes by, the more the human race strays away from its purpose. We are clouded by distractions and bounded by the limitations of the same world we have created.

Healers can help others remember the ways of our ancestors that we have since neglected. Healers have a natural ability to restore balance and ignite a light in others. Here are the signs that you might be one of them.

You Know That You Are Meant For Something Bigger

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You've always had a hard time being satisfied with what you already had, except it wasn't coming from a place of lack. Rather, you felt a pull towards something bigger. You are being called to engage and encourage a global shift in consciousness.

You are attracted to leadership roles and careers that have an impact directly on people rather than simply generate money for a corporation. You're not driven by greed but have a genuine desire to spend your time helping others.

You Think In Grey, Instead Of Black And White

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It really bothers you when someone says that there are two sides to every story because in your opinion there is a hundred. You are easily aware of the changing nuances of other people's energy. You feel as though everyone should be able to understand the opposing perspective if they could just try.

You are empathetic by nature but also very observant. You pick up on detail and you can read body language. You are able to think of the alternative when no one else can see it. This also allows you to see silver linings in the darkest situations.

You Are The "Go To" Person

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Strangers at the grocery store come up to you and share their whole life story. Friends always call you first to ask for advice. Sometimes you even blame yourself for trying to fix others instead of letting them do it themselves.

You just have "that face" that is emits kindness and makes it easy to open up to. Your energy shines through and your aura is naturally inviting. You don't have to work hard to get to the root of other people's problems.

Children Gravitate Towards You

Children, much like animals, have such pure spirits, yet to be conditioned and drained by society. They are much more attuned to positive vibrations. This makes them drawn towards you. You are usually the favorite without needing to do much.

Healers have a certain energy that emits from them wherever they go and while adults may be too distracted to notice, children won't be.

You Survived A Difficult Initiation

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If your life has just been one traumatizing event after the other, chances are the universe was preparing you for your purpose. For example in indigenous cultures, the village knew who the shaman was because he or she was struck by lightning and still survived.

In modern culture, this can come in the form of suffering a great loss, or growing up in a broken home. Without these experiences, you wouldn't have gathered the necessary tools and experience to heal others.

You See Clearly

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You focus on the big picture instead of insignificant details. You are able to see how events connect. You are driven by how they will play out instead of dwelling or rushing.

You believe in synchronicity over coincidences. You have intention behind your actions. You like to write things down and have a plan but you are adaptable and flexible to your path.

Your Mood is Guided By The Weather

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You feel energized by the sun, you are on edge when it storms, you feel cleansed when it rains and you feel most at home when walking through nature. This is because you are in a direct line of communication with the earth.

You might even notice that your dreams are more vivid than others, and you have visual thoughts. You receive messages that guide you and you can use that same energy to guide others. The earth speaks through you.

You Love Deeply And Almost Overbearingly

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Healers have such a big purpose to serve that the love that they have to give can feel overwhelming. The universe blessed them with so much energy to share that they can't help but care for others, with deep love.

Others may think of this loving nature as overbearing or intrusive. Yet they crave it as soon as it's gone. This kind of love is what pushes them.

Astrology

The Strength Each Zodiac Finds When Grieving A Loss

Grief happens in different stages and there's not necessarily a right or wrong way to deal with it. Some people can't face it right away and keep themselves distracted while others spend the first couple of weeks crying in bed thinking that they'll never feel better.

Grief isn't only felt death. They say that a break up activates the same pain receptors and stress hormones experienced when a loved one dies, so grief is really about any kind of loss for someone or even something like a job that was valued. It can have lasting effects that become traumatic when coping is not eventually dealt with in a healthy way. Luckily, each zodiac sign has character traits that give them a unique strength when dealing with grief. What's yours?

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Aries: Their Straighforwadness

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Aries doesn't care to sugarcoat and avoid the hard truth. They prefer to act in the heat in the moment and cut right down to the chase. You know that when Aries go for a night out, they won't be shy away from their dancing their heart out. They take that same explosive energy wherever they go. When they're grieving, that's all they feel and they let themselves face it head-on until they can come to terms with it.

They may feel a lot of anger at first or a lot of sadness, and they may not deal with that component calmly but having the strength to be straightforward about their grief is what helps them let the feelings pass and move on.

Taurus: An Ability To Escape

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A Taurus likely won't grief right away and try to keep their chin up. They might even try to console others first because the distraction helps them escape. When they're not helping others, they're going to want to disappear for a while, taking themselves on solo dates and watching movie marathons. They'll basically do anything to distract themselves and escape the pain.

However, their ability to escape is also their strength. It gives them a reason to keep going and eases them into adapting to a life without the person they lost gradually.

Gemini: Seeing The Good

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Gemini will do their best to resist their grief. They would rather stay positive to cope. However, the more they avoid what's really on their mind, the more likely they are to be moody. However, when they chose to accept grief, they manage to always find a silver lining.

Their strength is in choosing to celebrate a person's life instead of mourning their death. To them, the end is not a loss because if they never had it in the first place they would have missed out on a lot.

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Cancer: Emotional Intuition

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​Cancers have the ability to be completely in tune with their emotions. They wear their hearts on their sleeves and it's no different when they're grieving. They are not afraid to let themselves cry it out from the second it happens even if they're not sure if they could ever stop.

Cancers' intense emotion is their strength. They're able to manifest them into whatever channel they desire which means that when they get through the painful part, they'll go through the healing with the same intensity.

Leo: Coping Internally

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Leo doesn't feel the need to have a pity party and crying circles. Odds are they won't show their pain publicly but that doesn't mean that they're not dealing with it.

Leo's strength is in coping in the way that feels best to them in the moment, privately. They're not looking to repeat what works for others, they want to find what works for them. They spend a lot of time analyzing exactly what is making them sad and lean deeply into their emotions.

Virgo: Order And Logic

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Virgo can't come easily in terms of loss and death because they can't completely make sense of it. Their need for logic and order and can make them feel completely out of control when grieving. However, it is that same need for control that makes their strength.

Once they get through the initial shock, they ground themselves by creating their how-to guide for coping. They make step by steps lists of how to heal and keep busy with to-do lists meant to help them grieve in orderly ways.

Take a quick zodiac personalized reading here to find out what the universe has to say about you right now.

Libra: Rationality

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When Libra deals with grief, it can become more rational than usual. Libra is able to accept loss and death as unavoidable parts of life so it sees no point in fighting it. Instead, it spends its energy on adapting to a new life without what it is that it lost.

While sometimes Libra takes extreme measures by completely erasing parts of their lives that held the memory of what they lost, their strength is becoming a self-containing equalizer of emotions. Eventually, they even out their grief too.

Scorpio: Manipulation Through Empathy

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​When we hear the word "manipulation" we tend to think of its negative connotation. But manipulation by definition is an ability to purposely mold. For Scorpios, manipulation isn't just getting what they want out of others. When grieving, they're able to manipulate their sadness with intention.

This comes in different forms. For instance, by spending time with animals, children, or loved ones, they're able to manipulate feelings of protection and love that heal both themselves and those around them.

Sagittarius: The Hunt For Happiness

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​Saggitarius is driven by a genuine desire to find happiness. When they're first grieving they may feel lost and helpless as they no longer see a path to happiness.

Yet eventually their ambition kicks in and fuels them with the desire to fight their pain. They don't avoid their emotions and instead try to find ways to turn the negative ones into positive ones and be as happy as possible until they can become fully happy again.

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Capricorn: Maturity

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Capricorn tries to be mature about the way they handle grief, and finds it unhelpful to spend days in bed or to get angry. As an earth sign they feel connected to a higher being and can see the bigger picture.

They understand that loss will hurt for a while but that with time they will get past it, so they do their best to go through the motions until then, each day becoming easier than the last, until they're fully themselves again.

Aquarius: Living Back Memories

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Capricorns don't need external validation and motivation because they find it within themselves. They know the difference between what they can and can't control. They know they can't control a loss but they know that no one can take away the memories they created before they no longer could. So they chose to focus on what they can do.

They keep memories alive through pictures. They reconnect with people from their childhood or they pick up passions they left behind. This way, they connect back with themselves instead of caving to the loss.

Pisces: Just Keeps Swimming

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Pisces just need to be reminded that no matter what happens and how bad it is, the world keeps going and so they need to be able to keep up with it. Usually, they can get to this stage before falling down a spiral. Instead, they chose to lose themselves in ways that feel beautiful to them.

They chose to keep swimming. They indulge in self-care methods like watching movies or spending quality time with others. Their strength is in jump-starting their healing process and their motivation to keep moving forward.

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