Use These 3 Simple Steps to Solve ANY Argument
Understand Your Emotions and Why You Feel This Way
If you feel as though you are sad, depressed in anyway, you need to explore these feelings and why you are feeling them. If you can truly realize what the problem is with your relationship that is making you so miserable, then tell them. Tell them everything about how you feel, how you feel about them, what is making you so sad, and let them know that you want to fix it.
If you are confronting them out of fear, or are anxious about them no longer wanting to be with you, then you must come to an understanding within yourself. Love does exactly what it wants to do. If it means taking a different path than your own, then you will have to focus on what is happening today rather than what might happen in the future. You cannot control everything that happens in a relationship. Sometimes, it's better that you no longer be together in the long run. Do not despair.
If the reason you are confronting them is out of anger or frustration (being the most common of emotions), then you first must learn to calm yourself down. Keep yourself steady and stable as you confront them about your concerns, wants, and needs. Nothing can be solved with violence; use logic and reason.
It's All About Perspective
There is always more than one point of view. Your point of view may not always be the right one. It is wise to consider everything that your partner has told you, that you truly listen to their words so you know what they expect. Give them space to consider the same. If they care, they will think about the words you have given them.
Take your time to work these things out. Chances are, you both are just having one really big misunderstanding that's easily fixable with just a little bit of communication.