They say that all good things must eventually come to an end and that sometimes applies to relationships as well. Some relationships end prematurely due to specific circumstances out of their control, and other times because one or both parties simply weren’t ready to love each other yet.
Depending on how your relationship ended, reconnecting with an ex again can bring up a lot of emotion. Sometimes they surprise you with the growth they’ve made and make you reconsider whether your goodbye should still be final. Dealing with mixed feelings can be confusing, but it affects some signs more than others.
Your sun sign, also known as your core identity, your rising sign which affects your personality, and your Venus placement (which impacts your love style), all play a role in how likely you are to reconnect with a former flame. Keep reading to unlock which 3 signs, in particular, are most wired to.
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Taurus (April 20-May 20)
Taurus has a hard time letting go. The longer the relationship lasted, the more comfortable they got. This fixed earth sign is incredibly dedicated and devoted to their partner, even after they break up. Once they’ve given them their focus, they have a hard time shifting their attention away. They may eventually start a new routine without them, but they still maintain care and affection toward their exes.
Taurus is all about commitment and persistence, so just because a relationship didn’t work out then, doesn’t mean they’re not willing to work on it now. After all, being symbolized by the bull, they’re fighters who go after what they want. They also are very prospective so you can count on them to have worked on themselves and to continue to do so to make sure they hold healthy relationships.
The question is, has their ex made all the same positive changes? This is what determines if they take them back.
Cancer (June 21-July 22)
Cancer is the sweet caretaker of the zodiac. They love with everything they have, and they give their partners all their effort. When this is not reciprocated, the relationship doesn’t work out. What sometimes happens is that their partner doesn’t truly value what Cancer gave them until their gone and that’s when they ask for them back.
Being an empathetic and nurturing sign, Cancer is always able to see their former’s place perspective and accept their apology. Often, they give people more chances than they deserve as they’re loyal to a fault.
Cancers are also very sentimental and sometimes long for an ex because of the happy memories they once shared, turning a blind eye to why it didn’t work in the first place. Luckily Cancer is intuitive to an almost psychic level, so they can use their attunement to make the final call on whether taking a former back is actually what will make their heart happy or if it’s simply a temporary instant gratification.
Libra (Sept. 22-Oct. 23)
Being one of the most harmonious signs around, you’d think that Libra wouldn’t entertain a situation that could end up being chaotic. However, Libras are also very diplomatic which sometimes makes them people pleasers. They idealize relationships and the people they were involved with, making them forget the red flags. They try to understand people deeply including exes because this makes them feel more in control.
Libras usually walk away from relationships on good terms, making sure everything is dealt with fairly. They don’t want to simply hate on their ex to villainize them to get over them. But doing so always leaves the door slightly open and is a recipe for on-again, off-again relationships.
Libras need to evaluate whether they’re taking back an ex for the sake of nostalgia, or if they’ve both learned something new this time around that would make giving another chance work.
Love Is Blind, Love Is Patient
We often hear this in wedding vows this passage: “Love is patient. Love is kind. (…) It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” We are conditioned to think that we must fight for love and that it’s okay if we do crazy things out of our character for love. We give love a lot of power to love which makes it seem like it’s in control of us.
In reality, it’s the other way around. Love is a choice that we’re in complete control of. Being with a partner means waking up and choosing them every day. Whether we chose them should be based on how healthy the relationship, is and how happy they make us, no matter our zodiac sign.
But Is It Worth It?
Some zodiac signs may be more interested in reconnecting with an ex again, but this applies to everyone. Going back to old love isn’t always worth it. It may seem that way when it’s new and exciting again, especially if the feelings never truly went away.
Make sure you’re choosing to go back for the right reasons, otherwise you’ll simply watch history repeat itself and you’ll find yourself starting the healing process all over again when it inevitably doesn’t work out for the same reasons.
Change Is Key
A relationship won’t work out a second time if nothing has changed. Change has to start on an individual level. You’ll both need to assess whether you’ve taken the time to work on yourselves and whether you’re in a place to fulfill each other’s needs to the set standard.
You’ll have to revisit the reasons why the relationship didn’t work out in the first place and assess whether you’ve got the will and the tools to fix that this time around. It won’t be easy but make sure you’re not still holding grudges from the past.
Sometimes you just won’t ever know till you try!
Think Of Future You
In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?
Love is more than just kisses and butterflies, it’s much more than that. If you want to know more on what your birth chart reveals about how you love and what you need out of a partner, check out this personalized report based on date of birth.
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Aria Misty is a recent university grad. She did her undergrad in media, information & technoculture with a Master in Journalism & Communications in 2018.
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