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The Hard Realities Of People Who Have No Idea How Beautiful They Are

They don't even know how beautiful they are, inside and out

Do you ever wonder why people treat you differently? Why they can't stand you without you ever doing anything wrong to them? Why others won't take you seriously? Why do relationships take advantage of you? You might be more beautiful than you see yourself. It's the people who are beautiful and don't even realize how beautiful they are that have it the hardest because they don't understand what they're doing wrong. Instead, they internalize the way others treat them and often experience low self-esteem as a result.

But we're here to boost your ego and remind you that you are beautiful. Yes, every single one of you reading this is beautiful. Your beauty is in your intellect, your desire to read, to grow, and to better understand the world. Except, being beautiful also comes at a price. Here's how.

Craving Recognition

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Alot of the cover faces of successful businesses appear to be beautiful but it turns out that if they're both talented and physically appealing, they likely had to work even harder. In reality, many beautiful people aren't taken seriously.

Their accomplishments are often attributed to their looks or outfits instead of being admiredfor their talent and intellect. They are often mocked or dismissed even when they try their best, leaving them craving recognition that they might never get.

Unwanted Attention

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​When beautiful people finally do get some attention, it's often the wrong kind. People assume they're just there for a good time and only keep them around when they need something out of them. Beautiful people are trusting and it can be disheartening watching so many of the people they loved turn out to be disloyal or shallow.

In romantic relationships, people will often fall hard and fast for them but fail to actually get to know them for who they are. They create ideals of them and when they fail to match them, they take it out on them.

Their Problems Are Often Belittled

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The people we consider most beautiful are the ones who are usually always wearing a warm smile, always friendly and always positive. They're usually the ones to support everyone around them but they're rarely the ones to get in return. People assume their lives must be easier because of their positivity and beauty so they leave them to tend to their emotions alone.

They assume they'll bounce back because nothing in their world can be "that bad." Even when beautiful people try to reach out for support, they rarely ever find the right kind and end up feeling even more alone.

They Can Be The Most Insecure Of All

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Being considered beautiful comes with a high standard of expectations. People assume that you're treated differently, that the same rules don't apply to you, that you don't have to work as hard as them and that things are just handed to you. This is a false reality that they've created to make themselves feel better.

They have no idea how hard you work every day. That everything you have, you've earned. That you have to fight through the generalizations and often do it alone. You actually get insecure too, and can't stand what others expect of you.

Often Socially Rejected

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Although attractive people are generally more popular socially, there’s some evidence that beautiful people can also experience social rejection from members of their own sex. Maybe it's jealousy, maybe others are intimated by them but either way, it never feels good. They are often the center of gossip stories with others trying to taint their image and tear them down as to no longer feel threatened by them.

Yet, the most beautiful people continue to meet those people with kindness because their beauty extends from the inside and out.

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Uplifting

The World's Oldest Person Just Turned 119, But What's Fascinating Is How She Spends Her Days

The oldest person in the world just recently celebrated her 119th birthday in a nursing home in southwestern Japan. Now if you're picturing an immobile old lady who does nothing bt spend her days in bed, think again. This woman may be at the end of her days, but she is still full of life.

The way that she spends her every day should be an inspiration to all of us that we're never too old to put in the effort everyday to live it to the fullest. After all, what's the point in living if we don't actually feel alive? Here's how she does it.

She Has Watched The Whole World Change

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When you've lived almost a century and a quarter long, you're bound to probably feel like you're in your own science fiction movie by the end. The world has drastically changed over the years. When Kane Tanaka was born, in 1903 in Japan, life was much simpler. This was the same year that the Wright brothers powered their first flight. Kane grew up around her nine siblings before she married a rice shop owner when she turned 19 years old.

Since then she has lived through wonders including two world wars, two pandemics, the rise of technologies, and more life changes than we could possibly imagine.

Today, Her Routine Is Quite Unique

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​Just because she has lived a long and meaningful life, doesn't mean that she's done living each day to the fullest. What's really fascinating about Kane's long life is the way that she chooses to live every day.

It turns out that even at her nursing home, Kane wakes up every morning bright and early at 6 a.m. and spends part of her day studying mathematics. She keeps her mind sharp and alert by spending the day solving number puzzles and playing board games. She has gotten so good at this that in 2019, she became an expert in the game of Othello, a strategy board game, even beating the nursing home's younger staff.

She Has Broken New Records

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Kane is now part of the Guinness World Records and has been since turned 117 and became Japan's oldest living person. On her birthday, Guinness even tweeted her a happy birthday and shared a video of her from 2019, when she was officially given the title.

Unfortunately, while Kane has adapted to much of the modern world, she hasn't made it as far as setting her own Twitter account to reply. Nonetheless, everyone who saw the tweet was inspired by her will to live as well as the way she chooses to live.

She's Got The Right Attitude

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Tanaka sounds like a delightful woman who emits all kinds of positive vibes. Her personality exceeds her intelligence and love for math because just like the average person, Tanaka also shares a strong love for fizzy drinks and chocolate. In fact, when she was gifted a box of chocolates during her Guinness ceremony, someone asked her how many chocolates she wanted to eat, she replied, "100." And why shouldn't she? When you've lived that long there is no reason not to indulge and maximize life's little pleasures.

Tanaka carried the same attitude when she was crowned Japan's oldest person at 117 and celebrated with a coke. Tanaka's positivity is radiant and comes across in all her gestures. When she was sent flowers on Respect for the Aged Day, she expressed her gratitude by making a peace sign.

Maybe Chocolate Is The Key

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Tanaka has another three years to go until she breaks the all-time record for the oldest person that has lived, which right now is held by Jeanne Louise Calment from France, who lived to 122 years. Currently, she holds the record for the world's oldest currently living person since Jeanne has since passed.

What's interesting about these two women is their love for their chocolate. They say that Jeanne ate two pounds of chocolate a week! Could chocolate be the new fountain of youth? The answer is probably in how these two women carried themselves in their youth and the way they're able to see the good in the everyday. However, Japan is known to hold one of the longevity rates in the world which have increased significantly in the last 60 years.

How Much Longer Do You Have left?

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​No matter how old or young you are in this moment, you are still alive for a reason. Make every moment count, have no regrets. Live every day to the fullest and find within it a reason to be happy. If you're still looking for a purpose, take a quick zodiac reading here to find out what your universe has to say about you right now.

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