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The Mirror Effect Is Why Empaths Often Get Mistreated, Here's How

We know that Empaths have a natural ability to pick up on other's emotions and read their body language without them having to say a word. They also are almost cursed with an ability to completely embody the way that someone else feels, and put themselves in their shoes easily.

However, it doesn't always stop there. Often, an empath will project those emotions and behavior right back to their owner. This is known as the mirror effect of an empath.

People Are Afraid To Confront Themselves

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It is common for people to act authentically. We tend to hide our true selves behind screens. We mask our faces with fake smiles just to get by. Most of us don't take the time to reflect to find our true selves but simply go with the motions. We're living but we don't feel alive.

For that reason, when an empath reflects this back to people it unintentionally forces them to face the reality of their personality, choices, and lifestyle, which is much harder than avoiding it.

They Think The Empath Is Self-Righteous

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When someone is forced to face themselves before they're ready, they'll usually lash out. They'll blame their problems and emotions on anyone but themselves because they refuse to take accountability. They'll blame the empath for acting as their mirror and tell them that they they're falsely righteous.

They'll want to prove the empath wrong by pointing out all their flaws instead. It's unfortunate but this is the first step to their path to acceptance.

The Empath's High Vibrations Don't Mesh With Low Ones

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An Empath doesn't need to be around people who are surrounded by negative energy for a few reasons. First off those with enough negativity in their energy field can't stand to be around those who vibrate clean energy. They would rather be someone who can be miserable with them to justify their actions.

Also, because of the empath's ability to take on someone else's energy, they're putting themselves at risk of lowering their own frequency because it's being brought down by their empathy for someone else. Basically, the energies just don't mix well.

Become A Conscious Empath

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There are two types of empaths out there. Unconscious ones who have yet to master their capability and keep it under control. An unconscious empath becomes like a sponge, soaking up the emotions of everyone around them until they burn out and run out of energy themselves. They are often anxious and overwhelmed.

Then there are conscious empaths who understand that they can choose which energies to allow into their field. The mirror of a conscious empath is much more focused and coherent. Their aura is much calmer. When a person mistreats them, it's usually because they have reflected back their deepest unaddressed wounds.

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The Four Facial Traits That Make The Most Attractive People

Researchers keep on trying to unlock the million-dollar question: what makes a person the most beautiful? The media keeps on changing the women they show as most beautiful and we keep on changing our appearance and fashion in an attempt to keep up. But the question is, do we actually ever actually "feel" beautiful?"

Does it truly come down to a science, where certain traits deem a person most attractive or is beauty relative like they say? Let's find out!

The More Symmetry The Better

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​Many experimental studies have shown that men and women both prefer faces that are more symmetrical. They even came up with ratios and masks that can measure the level of symmetry in a face, and by extension its beauty. Even monkeys have been noticed gazing longer at symmetrical faces.

But why? Well, science doesn't seem to have gotten that far. It could have something to do with evolution and our brains tricking themselves into thinking that a symmetrical face must be a sign of good health. Maybe we associate good genes with the more successful development of a facial structure.

Having "Babyface" Features

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​The idea of the fountain of youth didn't come out of anywhere. There is a belief that people are at their most beautiful in the prime of their youth, where they've grown enough to have adult features, but haven't experienced enough to lose their innocence and be affected by the environment.

From this idea, came the "baby face", where large eyes, long lashes, a cute little nose, a small chin, plump lips, and rosy cheeks are desirable. These traits can either describe a baby or a supermodel but the idea is that they reflect feelings of warmth, trust and won't argue back.

The More Average, The More Relatable

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People are actually attracted to faces that appear distinctly average. Yes, the more you look like the general population, the more attractive you can come off, which just seems ironic.

The reason some studies made this conclusion, is that teh more average a face is, the more they likely are to be a blend of genes A study, published in the journal Human Nature said that average faces might be a reflection of a more diverse set of genes, which we might subconsciously consider as stronger in fighting off illnesses.

Something About Getting Older

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Maybe women seem more attractive with baby faces but forget about youth when it comes to women's attraction to men. Women might actually end up being more attracted to men who look older according to a study.

This idea is still evolving and has something to do with women finally having a place in the workforce. The more financially independent they become, the more they like older guys, according to the study. They even named this the "George Clooney Effect" which showed women that the more patient they are, the better their chances at finding a man has more status and resources due to being older.

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Familiar Faces Per Genetics

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Ask yourself how you feel when you meet someone who looks like someone else you love? You probably automatically take a liking to them just because they seem familiar, even if you've truly never met them before. You might even just trust them right away. In the same way, the more familiar a person might feel, the more we could be attracted to them.

Another study found that the faces we are attracted to are heavily influenced by our personal experiences in life, and probably nothing more. This theory says it's not because of genetics as even twins couldn't agree on who they found attractive. It just depends on who you meet and look at throughout your life and the experiences you associate with them.

Basically You Can't Win

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Well, it turns out, even when you try to with science, you really can't define beauty. Some people are attracted to babyfaces, while some can't help but be drawn to older ones. Some people's brains attach symmetry with good health while others just want an average-looking face to continue their genes. So the message is, beauty is relative after all. I am beautiful and you are beautiful and everyone will be most attractive to someone.

Rather than focus on looks, focus on the person on the inside. You're here for a reason. This is your sign to get to know yourself better and unleash your potential.

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