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10+ Things You Don't Owe Anyone (Even If You Think You Do)

There are always moments in our lives where we feel as if we must do this certain thing for this certain someone all because we are a good person and want to live up to those expectations that people have set for us.

Well, the truth of the matter is that you don't necessarily owe anything to anyone.

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The fact that you are so willing to put other people's needs before your own is a very wonderful quality to have.

However, if you find yourself being the one who ends up with nothing in the end more often than not, then you should consider these good reasons to just say no the next time someone wants an explanation out of you.

I know how much social pressure there is to conduct yourself a certain way. Some people they know what's best for you and the whole world. But remember...

1. You don't owe anyone an explanation for your living situation.

It doesn't matter what kind of living situation you're in, whether you have housemates, live alone, live unmarried with a partner, or live with your ex still.

You don't need to explain to anyone why you live the way that you do.

2. You don't owe anyone an explanation for your life priorities.

Want to open a business? Become a pastor at your church?

Sell all your belongings and backpack through India? Go for it! And remember, you don't have to explain your priorities to anyone.

They are yours, and you don't have to try to impress people with them.

3. You don't owe anyone an explanation for your decision about marriage.

Want to get married at 18? Don't ever want to get married? As long as you're an adult making decisions of your own accord, your decision about marriage is yours alone.

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4. You don't owe anyone an apology if you are not sorry.

If you've done something that someone else doesn't like but that you don't regret, you don't owe them an apology. An apology is to try to rectify a mistake and the impact it's had on others.

5. You don't owe anyone an explanation for requiring alone time.

If you need alone time, you're not being rude, introverted, or unfriendly. You just need time alone.

You don't have to explain your need for that. Just enjoy that precious time alone.

6. You don't owe anyone your agreement on their personal beliefs.

When people share their personal beliefs with you, it's often a sign of trust that should be cherished.

It's a window into their souls and the way they think. But just because someone has shared their personal beliefs with you doesn't mean you have to nod in agreement.

Also, see #3.

7. You don't owe anyone a yes to everything they say.

I know it can be hard to say no to the hard ask, but just know that you don't have to say yes to everything everyone asks of you.

Know your limits and what you're willing to do for others.

8. You don't owe anyone an explanation for your physical appearance.

If you've lost weight, gained weight, changed your hair, grown a beard, or done anything with your physical appearance, you don't owe anyone an explanation for it.

You're just doing you. They can deal with pink hair.

9. You don't owe anyone an explanation for your food preferences.

We all like different types of food. If someone tries to judge you over it, don't engage.

You don't have to explain what kind of food you like to eat. You just eat what you want to.

10. You don't owe anyone an explanation for your love life.

Whether your love life doesn't exist or does with another consenting adult, it's no one's business but your own.

People will try to judge you for who you sleep with, but what they think generally doesn't matter.

11. You don't owe anyone an explanation for your career or personal life choices.

When it comes to the direction you're going in life, you don't owe anyone an explanation for your career or the direction you've opted to go.

Just go for it! The people who truly care for you will back you up.

12. You don't owe anyone an explanation for your religious or political views.

Whether you are a Democrat, Republican, Catholic, Protestant or Muslim, it's your choice and you don't owe anyone an explanation for it.

If someone wants to have a fun, candid discussion with you and you also want that, have at it! A good debate or exchange of ideas is a lot of fun.

13. You don't owe anyone an explanation for being single.

It doesn't matter if you're single by design or by accident - you're single!

Chances are, you're pretty happy with it too. You might get pressured to go find a partner and get married, but you march to the beat of your own drum.

14. You don't owe anyone a date just because they asked.

This is such an important thing to remember. You don't have to say yes just because someone asked you to go out with them!

15. You don't owe anyone an explanation for your relationship choices.

Did you forgive a cheater? Did you get back together with your ex? Did you say no to a marriage proposal?

These decisions were made by you for your own set of reasons, and you don't owe anyone an explanation for that.

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"You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove." – Maya Angelou

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Psychology Defines 7 Types Of Love, Yet Only A Rare Few Make It To The Last One

Psychologists have confirmed the average person will experience different types of love through their lives. A study has even shown that a person can fall in love at least three times in their lifetime. Howevr, the type of love that they experience often depends on the one they share it with. Some people bring out deep emotions that cause a whirlwind of a romance, which is sometimes toxic. Others, turn out to be nothing more than companions and are better off as friendships.

However, rare are the people who gets the experience the kind of love that truly feels everlasting, fulfilling and healthy. Find out which kind of love we mean and which type of love your current kind of love falls into

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Infuatuation

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This is the first step of all relationships but it remains on a shallow level. It's usually a fine line between lust and love and infatuation never usually makes it past the lust and into a meaningful connection. Yet, infatuation is often disguised as love and can be confusing.

The more both parties are physically attracted to each other, the more they want to spend all of their time together and move a relationship really quickly from the get-go. However, this kind of relationship is usually short-lived. When relationships get too intense, too quickly, they don't tend to take the time to build a solid enough foundation to grow on, and many of the red flags just get brushed off only to come back later.

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Liking

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This is usually the second stage of a relationship. Once we decide that we are attracted enough to someone, we become open to getting to know them better. From there, the more we get to know them, the more feelings are developed based on what we know. This is still an introductory stage to relationships, because the more layers are peeled, the higher the risk of finding some sort of dealbreaker that ends the relationship there.

During this stage either feelings will develop closer to love, and increase passion or commitment, or they will eventually fade and grow closer to a friendship It all depends on shared values, interests, and needs.

Empty Love

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This is a tricky kind of relationship. On one hand, it is an exclusive relationship with an agreed-upon commitment. Couples experiencing this type of love could spend years on end together but still lack intimacy and passion. They may truly enjoy each other's company and care deeply about one another but still be missing that special spark that makes everything come together.

Over time the relationship becomes comfortable but boring. It's not necessarily that anyone is doing anything wrong, but there is no denying that the relationship is just missing something to make it feel passionate and exciting.

Fatuous Love

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This is the most common type of love as it includes two of the three foundations: commitment and passion. Couples often find that enough to pursue their relationship and exchange their vows. Yet, this kind of relationship despite having attraction lacks true intimacy.

These kinds of relationships go through many ups ad downs, they have their good days but they also have the days where they feel like they're not truly happy or like their needs aren't being fully met. This could be due to differing love languages or because the couple isn't able to reach a high enough level of vulnerability to fully give themselves to someone else.

Romantic Love

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This kind of love has another combination of the three pillars of love: passion and intimacy. The feelings are there and so is the attraction. Couples in this kind of relationship feel really close to one another and it's easy for them to open up. They fall deeply in love, rather quickly and naturally. The only problem is they can't necessarily agree on where the relationship is headed so they just brush it off.

They put off serious commitments hoping to just go with the flow and figure the rest out in time. Unfortunately in many instances, the relationship reaches a termination point because of major commitments that can't be agreed on.

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Companionate Love

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Companionate love consists of commitment and intimacy, another combination that is still lacking. This type of love is somewhere between the line of friendship and love. There is somewhat of an attraction that makes the friendship feel stronger but it's mostly due to the strong bond that's shared. This kind of couple is each other's best friend, They trust each other fully, and are able to be completely themselves.

The attraction is there and the love is genuine but it's missing that head over heels super-in-love kind of feeling. Many relationships develop into this kind of love after many years of marriage.

Consummate Love

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This is the ideal kind of love and yet it is the rarest of all. It is made of all the pillars of the perfect relationship: love passion, emotional and physical intimacy, and commitment. The levels of each vary throughout time but there is enough of each to keep the relationship young even after years of commitment. Arguments are resolved peacefully, affection is given freely and plans of the future are carried out.

These couples are just as in love as the day they met during their final days. They find ways to keep their relationships exciting and keep on surprising one another. They never allow themselves to truly get comfortable and stop appreciating what they have. They trust each other fully while still pursuing their own independence.

Healthy Love

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All that matters in love is that you are happy and the love is healthy. The rest can be developed and worked on with the right person. In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?

Love is more than just kisses and butterflies, it's much more than that. If you want to know more on what your birth chart reveals about how you love and what you need out of a partner, check out this personalized report based on date of birth.