5 Toxic Behaviors You Should Never Tolerate
It can be hard sometimes to identify and eliminate toxic behaviors from your life. They seem to sap the life from you. Relationships, be it platonic or romantic, are there to serve both people, not just one.
Here are 5 terrible toxic behaviors that suck your soul dry - and you should never put up with.
1. Being the victim.
Sometimes we are victims of things. It just happens. If you're well adjusted though, you won't play the victim to your friends. You can vent about it, but you still have to take on your challenges yourself and make things right. When people play the victim with you, offer a little pragmatic advice and send them on their way.
2. Being manipulative.
It's not always easy to know when we're being manipulated. At some level, we all want to do the right thing on behalf of others. Sometimes though, people use guilt, selective memory or compliments to get what they want out of you. It's important to be able to recognize when you're dealing with a manipulator.
3. Being judgmental.
It sucks to be around people who are superficially judgmental. I think we all know someone like this. Their superficiality stems from poor feelings about themselves, making it a toxic habit for both them and the people around them. We all make judgments in our day to day lives but it's crucial that we don't get malicious about it.