I Will Unfriend A Draining Soul Really Quick
5 Types Of People You Need To Avoid
As you locate people in your life that can no longer be allowed to influence you, there will be resistance. Not only from the person but you may surprise yourself by defending these people.
We are all brothers and sisters, it can be hard to always see them as the threat they are. It can be all too easy to over empathize and justify their feelings and actions.
Any productive and wholesome action or feeling never has to be justified. Remember this as you read on.
Don't let anyone trick you into eating the bullshit that they have to consume. Do what is right by you. It can seem cruel, but it is the only way to ensure that your journey stays productive and capable.
To help weed through the masses, we have gathered the garden variety of toxic people. These people CAN NOT be allowed to clog you up, slow you down or hurt you.
Jealous People Are Not Good For You
You have to be looking after your business and personal matters, you are the only one with the knowledge, right and ability to make the best possible life for yourself. The same is true for anyone you know.
If you notice that someone is neglecting their needs or miss handling resources, mainly because they are creepily interested in your business, they need to go.
They are likely falling farther and farther from their path and as the fall the instinct is to grab whatever they can to save themselves. Don't be that life line.
Anyone Who Gossips
Ugh, this one shouldn't even be hard to evict, these personality types are just awful and nearly painful to be around. In a petty way, there is a fleeting sense of superiority that can be found in gossiping.
No one is a better person after exaggerating the business of another when the subject isn't around to defend their name or image.
Don't get wrapped up in the sickly addiction of propagating rumors. Something to consider if leaving your local gossip is proving to be difficult (you big softy, you), I have never met a rumor mill that shut down.
I mean to say they are ALWAYS running their mouth. As soon as you step out of earshot, you are likely the subject of discussion and judgement.
The People Who Couldn't Stop Complaining To Save Their Lives
Highlighting the unfavorable elements in a crappy situation, is annoying and doesn't help solve anything. The person whining the most is usually the least productive person.
It makes sense in an ugly sort of way, they don't have much to offer and all their energy and efforts are dedicated to reminding those foolish enough to be in hearing distance that things are sucky and difficult. (they may also be thirsty and expect you to pull a fountain out of your left ear canal)
Life comes with a healthy amount of character building obstacles and struggles. This type of person is typically very dependent, not strong willed and rarely competent.
They rely on others for their survival and have no intention or means to make worthwhile the time and patience spent on them.
The Person That Refuses Responsibility And Blames Anyone Else
This particular brand of Earthling will not only waste your time, cause and magnify conflict, play havoc with your personal life, slow your growth and limit the diversity of your experiences; but they have a serious potential to get you into a lot of trouble.
In my experience, a person that believes they can escape the consequences of their actions is decidedly delusional.
One of the enabling factors in their life is whatever body they have handy to sacrifice. Do you really want to get caught up and possibly punished for the irresponsibility of another?
This personality is the worst and commonly the hardest to do something about. They will lie, cheat, misdirect, scheme, bully and basically WHATEVER they see a necessity to achieving their secret plots.
While that sounded like a PSA mixed with a bond film, this shouldn't detract from the truth of the statement.
They went unnoticed for long enough to become integrated in your life in some fashion or another. Now that the season is over, this fashion statement will try to haunt you as long as it can.
Evicting them will need strong resolve and patience. Some help from friends would be a blessing as well. Every liar, manipulator, or user use isolation to their advantage.
They will seek to 'trap' you, making you as dependent on them as much as they can. Reach out in anyway you can, let people know what you are going through.
The more eyes on the situation, the lower the success rate of their plots.