Veteran Discovers He Has A Daughter He Never Knew About, Reunited 50 Years Later
When you hear stories of lost or separated family members, there's often a lot of tragedy that comes with it. Some sort of injustice, failure, or fault on a system that neither party could control, especially if they were kids.
Sometimes, though, a story of a lost family member reuniting makes itself known, and sometimes all those stories bring are feelings of joy and peace, like one man who learned much later in life that he had a daughter.
Quite The Surprise
Gary Barnes, a Vietnam War veteran, was given a wonderful surprise back in 2017 when he learned an amazing secret about his life. He had a daughter.
Barnes was not aware that he had a daughter, as she was apparently conceived during his time in active service, and her mother never got to tell him the news. Now, they've reunited, sharing a moment of joy that neither could have expected.
A Lost Connection
To understand this unexpected discovery, we need to travel back in time to 1966, when Barnes was a US Navy sailor serving in Vietnam. During his downtime, he traveled to the Philippines, where he met a woman named Filapina. The two hit it off, but they didn't keep in touch after he was called back to duty.
"I never even knew she was pregnant," Barnes later told WTSP.
Following his military service, Barnes returned to the United States and married a woman named Caryl. The two eventually settled in Grass Valley, California. They never had any children of their own.
Not Who She Thought
While Barnes was living his life with Caryl, Filapina was raising a young daughter named Olivia Robles. The child was born in the Philippines in 1967 and relocated with her family to the US when she was six years old.
Her family seemed like any other – that is until Robles learned something just four years later. As it turns out, the man she believed to be her biological father was, in fact, her stepfather.
Looking For Answers
In 2014, Robles decided to submit a sample of her DNA to Ancestry.com. Not long after, she was notified that a match had been made with a woman in Alabama named Diana. Her relation? She was Barnes' cousin and, just a few months earlier, had submitted her own DNA to the same website as Robles.
Robles reached out to Diana, who was able to shed some light on the identity of her father. She revealed Barnes had spent time in the Philippines while serving in the Vietnam War and even sent Robles a photo of him. She was shocked. The man in the image looked almost identical to her youngest son.
Making Sure
In 2017, now at 50 years old, Robles took the bold step of calling Barnes. To confirm their suspicions, he sent off a sample of his DNA and, to his surprise, it was a match. Speaking with The Union, Robles said, "It just all fell together, like that missing piece of the puzzle all my life. It was amazing."
After their relationship was confirmed, the pair agreed to meet. It wasn't long before Barnes learned his new family extended past his daughter. He had three grandsons, all of whom have military backgrounds, and a great-grandson. Robles even reunited him with her mother.
A Happy Ending
The two started spending a lot of time together, and during their first vacation, Barnes got to see his grandson graduate from the United States Military Academy in West Point, New York. Given his history, this was clearly an emotional moment for him, one he's so grateful he was able to see.
Connections like this seem fantastical, straight out of a movie even, but this one is real, and it's beautiful. Robles eventually moved to California, where she worked very close to her father's home, able to spend even more time together later in both of their lives.
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