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What You See First Says A Lot About The Way Others See You

Is the way you see yourself the same as the way others see you? The answer is probably not. Although the way you see yourself comes first, there's no denying that the perception of others has some sort of impact on you. It can push you to want to stand out and impress or it can make you feel like you need to please others and want to disappear in the crowd. Others may see you as confident, further fueling your self-esteem or they might be avoiding you because they find your energy draining. So where do you fit?

Let's find out.

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Make Sure To Only Chose One

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If you can see both possibilities then congrats, you have great eyesight and detection skills. However, chances are your mind will spot one before the other, even if milliseconds apart. Go with the one you see first, because it's the one your subconscious mind visually processed.

This is based on the Rorschach psychological projective test idea. The idea of this is that when a person is shown an ambiguous or seemingly meaningless image, the mind will find a way to make sense of it and will impose a meaning on it that aligns with its subconscious thoughts. So, the image it imposes first reveals a lot about who you are, how you think, your personality, and your perception of the world around you.

Take A Look At This Image

With the purpose of this test in mind, take a deep breath and let your mind relax. Remember that there's no right or wrong answer. Now look at the image above, and take note of what jumped out at you first.

Once you have the answer, keep reading to find out your results.

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If You See A Couple

Do you find it hard to make decisions on the spot? Chances are the more time you have with a choice or decision, the more time you spend picturing every possible way it can play out. Sometimes this leads you to picture the worse case scenarios in an attempt to prepare for the worst. As a result, you sometimes act to protect yourself before anything has even happened.

Others tell you that you worry too much. Partners have a hard time getting you to trust them and fulfilling your need for validation. Sometimes people might even find you needy because they don't understand your tendency to overthink and how that can overwhelm you. You can be perceived as insecure, or even fragile, even though you're just really introspective.

Changing Perception

Remember that you weren't born worrying and you don't need to continue living your life preparing for the worst. While others may eventually tire of indulging the fictional situations and played-out conversations that you worry about, you don't need to either.

Thoughts are just thoughts, which means that they can be changed. Every time that you find yourself overthinking, tell yourself that it's because you're quite intune with yourself. You know what you want, and what you need and you only worry about it because you care. Now, replace the feeling fear that makes you worry with a feeling of excitement. Picture how you will feel if it all works out in your favor instead.

If You See An Explosion

You are probably often the main attraction. People are attracted to your energy, even though it can be chaotic at times. You like attention and even sometimes have a need for people to like you and admire you. Yet, you're also quite self-critical.

You find yourself often putting up a front and hiding your vulnerabilities. You think that showing emotion will either get misinterpreted or be viewed as a weakness so you can continue to take care of everyone else and often put yourself last. This makes you quite disciplined and controlled but eventually pushes you to a breaking point where sometimes you feel like you're going to explode. Even then, others see a happy, bubbly person, having no idea what's happening underneath your tough exterior.

There's No Reason To Hide

As hard as it may be, the more vulnerable you are, and the more of your true self you show, the happier you will ultimately be. The right people will stay no matter the high or the low that you are experiencing. When you free your energy, instead of repressing it, you will actually give it room to breathe, then to heal. You will eventually align yourself with others who share a similar frequency instead of trying to live up to a whole bunch of people who drain your energy.

You are already naturally disciplined so use this to your advantage. Pride yourself in your independent thoughts and feelings and welcome them. The more of them you let in, both good and bad, the more of yourself you will find.

What Else Is Hiding In Your Subconscious?

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The numerology of your birth date, regardless of your Zodiac sign, can help you discover detailed information about who you truly are and what is hiding in your subconscious. You won't believe how accurate it is!

Click HERE to learn what Numerology says about your life using only your Birth Date and unlock the messages hidden in your Personality Code now a free personalized video report.

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The Four Zodiac Signs That Make The Best Husbands

Women give a lot of time and thought to their idea of the best husband. Most would agree that he must be caring, loyal, attentive, understanding, and independent. No woman is looking to marry a man-child who is just looking for someone to mother him while he contributes the bare minimum. The tricky part is that most men are skilled at charming women into thinking that they will give them the world only to later find out that this was nothing but a facade, an idea they presented but had no intention of maintaining.

Luckily astrology has shown that some signs hold traits and characteristics within their core that naturally give them an advantage. Their personalities hold the traits of the best husbands.

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Aries: A Man On An Honest Mission

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​Aries is the kind of man who steps up to the plate without waiting for an invitation. You don't need to ask him twice to take out the trash, because he loves to take charge and be proactive. When they're at their best, Aries men want to become the financial head of their family. They want to ensure that they are working independently to provide and care for the one they love to the best of their abilities.

What makes Aries men great husbands is that they take care of themselves first so that they can actually care for a partner. Sometimes this means that they'll avoid relationships and stay single for long periods of time before they feel like they're in the right place for marriage. However, they tend to be honest about where they are along their path and with their intentions, making them easy to trust and later upfront husbands. You usually don't have to play guessing games, as they'll lay out their cards for you straight on the table.

Leo: Carefree Nature

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Leo men usually have a carefree nature and are happy to do their own thing while letting their partner do theirs. They are easy to plan with and communicate with because they are just happy if you are happy. They're not the jealous type or the overprotective kind that needs you home by a certain time and feels the need to check your phone when you're not looking. The trusting and natural connection they build makes for healthy relationships where both partners are independent in their own ways but can unite in an equal partnership.

Leos are also known to be courageous. Their carefree nature allows them to take risks without overthinking the outcomes. They are likely to go out of their way to make the first moves and put in the effort. They will make their wives feel supported, protected, and lifted.

Virgo: Supportive And Thoughtout

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A Virgo man is husband material because he actually takes the time to think things through. He doesn't rush into relationships and commitments unless he truly feels that it is right. This means that once he chooses the woman he wants to marry, he becomes entirely loyal and dedicated to her. He's willing to work through the hard times and doesn't give up easily. He takes time during arguments to think of logical responses rather than fight in the heat of the moment.

Virgo men are good at providing validation and reminding their wives that they are loved and cared for. They take their hard work ethic with them in their relationships because they understand that love is a muscle that needs to be trained in order to keep functioning at a healthy level. When Virgo men make a promise, they keep it forever.

Take a quick zodiac reading here to find out what your universe has to say about you right now.

Taurus: Protective Of The Heart

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​A Taurus man is both caring and loyal. He is the kind of husband who will always reassure you that he's on your team. He wants to face all your problems with you, not against you. You can count on him when you need support or even just a little help around the house. His reliability means that he always shows up, and remembers birthdays and anniversaries.

Taurus men have a great moral compass that easily guides them in their relationships. They hate to disappoint you so they go out of their way to make sure that you know how much they are trying to love you. Taurus is a romantic at heart, which makes him the ideal partner for a stable relationship that doesn't get comfortable and boring. From the moment he marries the woman he loves, he becomes protective of her heart

Cancer: A Lover Of Love

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Cancer men can't help but love everything about love. They can come off as needy but they are just craving to be loved the same intense, everything in, passionate way that they give love. They are emotional and sentimental making them some of the most romantic partners. They love to surprise their wives with flowers, or acts of service without being asked, just to see her smile at the end of the day.

They give a lot of affection and actually enjoy spending quality time with their wives. They are not confrontational and are great communicators. Marriages with them tend to be calm and patient because they don't let issues bottle up and talk calmly whenever there is an issue. They are genuinely kind and make caring partners.

Get Personal And Break The Cycle

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We don't blame you for being frustrated with dating but if you're struggling to find and keep a quality man click here to find out how to break the cycle. In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?

Love is more than just kisses and butterflies, it's much more than that. If you want to know more on what your birth chart reveals about how you love and what you need out of a partner, check out this personalized report based on date of birth.

For more great relationship advice and tips on how to attain the kind of love you deserve, watch this video from expert, Amy North: Click Here To Watch The Full Video.