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Why Some Struggle In Their Final Days, Before Passing Over

Even the best people don't have an easy exit out of this world. Even though they radiated love, kindness, and positivity throughout their lives, their last day are met with pain, sorrow, and fatigue. So, how come? Some say it's fear itself of death, and the unknown that drives even good people to struggle in their final days. Some say it's a way to cleanse themselves as the last chance for redemption.

Intuitive medium, psychic, and published writer answers this question. When a follower wrote to her trying to make sense of their mother's suffering, the author related because the same thing has happened to her own mother. However, not all suffering is bad. "For months after my mother’s death I contemplated and asked my guides to help me to understand why she and so many others suffer before passing over, " she was. Here's what she found out.

The Soul And The Body Are Separate

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Sherrie saw death take its toll when she watched her own mother fade into it. “Over the course of a year, my mother went from playing tennis two hours a day to being bedridden, riddled with pain, and unable to think clearly. When she died it felt like a blessing."

One of the worst parts of approaching death knowingly is watching the decline of the physical body. The same body that once allowed you to run now can barely achieve its most basic functions like eating or sleeping. Luckily Sherrie reminds us that the body and the soul are actually two separate entities even if they share a home for a while. When the physical body expires, it's because the soul is ready to move on. The dying process pushes it to the front, and sometimes it needs to suffer for a moment before it heals eternally.

The Soul Doesn't Have The Same Human Laws

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When thinking of the essence of the soul, without taking into account the body it lives in, we realize that the soul doesn't abide by the same human laws. Sherrie explains: “I learned that although it appears to make no sense and be a cruel way to live out the last days of life, the soul doesn’t abide by our human perceptions. On some level, we accept and create all that happens to us.”

When it comes to suffering, there is a reassuring feeling that it's happening for a reason. Sherrie explains that the pain is burning off negativity and karma before entering the higher vibrations of light. The body carries a lot of accumulated baggage that the soul may need to get rid of to achieve bliss. But she reminds us: "yet, it is not our conscious mind or personality and ego that makes these choices. Instead, it is the soul and spirit that perceives value and evolutionary advancement and possibilities in what in human terms is senseless and merciless."

It's A Loss Of Control

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There are a few reasons why a person suffers in their final days and they're not always pleasant. Sometimes even good people can really struggle. They may have lived such joyful, illuminating lives, only to take on a completely different perspective as they approach death.

The reason behind this is fear. Humans are afraid of what they don't understand and what they can't control. The less a person passing over feels in control, the more fear takes control over them. This makes the suffering worse because it feeds into fear.

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Sometimes It's Intentional To Let The Light In

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There are times where the soul is purposely choosing to suffer now, in order to be free forever. Sherrie explains: “Sometimes we choose a slower more conscious experience of dying to become more aware of our spirit and soulful self. It is only the physical and ego self that suffers. Dying pushes the soul to the forefront. Many people become aware during the process of dying that there is a part of them that is eternal.”

Sherrie explains that her mother chose to suffer because she wanted to “burn off negativity and karma before entering the higher vibrations of light." She was choosing to be in pain now to allow other sufferings to dissolve and leave it behind, with her physical body. This way, she was only left with positive energy to take with her into her passing. I

A Connection With  Loved Ones

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There are times that coming so close with death allows those who are dying to have one foot in the living world and the other into the one beyond. This gives them the ability to see their loved ones on the other side. However, the foot that still is on earth longs to hold on a bit longer because it doesn't want to leave everyone it loves to grieve. It becomes a balancing act:

“They see their loved ones on the other side and make frequent trips into the spirit realm to check it out before they go over. Sometimes people linger and die slowly as a way to bring comfort to those left behind. It can be hard to let go.”

It Lifts A Burden

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Even when they can see the light at the end of the tunnel, some souls stay and suffer longer just to alleviate the burden of grief from the loved ones they leave behind. They know that this is their last chance to say goodbye and that there might be words they still have left unsaid. If their suffering makes their passing over a little easier for their loved ones, they carry the burden of suffering for as long as they think is needed.

Although their loved ones may never fully feel ready to imagine their lives without them, a slower process allows them to let go with more acceptance.

It's A Choice

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While those of us still here have no way of knowing for sure what waits for us on the other side, thinking about death now could be a chance to alleviate our differing later. The more we face our fears and accept death as a part of life, the easier we make the process of passing over. There is no denying that death waits for us all even if we don't know when. Until we do, let's make sure to live fulfilling lives and be kind to everyone around us.

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The Four Zodiac Signs That Make The Best Husbands

Women give a lot of time and thought to their idea of the best husband. Most would agree that he must be caring, loyal, attentive, understanding, and independent. No woman is looking to marry a man-child who is just looking for someone to mother him while he contributes the bare minimum. The tricky part is that most men are skilled at charming women into thinking that they will give them the world only to later find out that this was nothing but a facade, an idea they presented but had no intention of maintaining.

Luckily astrology has shown that some signs hold traits and characteristics within their core that naturally give them an advantage. Their personalities hold the traits of the best husbands.

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Aries: A Man On An Honest Mission

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​Aries is the kind of man who steps up to the plate without waiting for an invitation. You don't need to ask him twice to take out the trash, because he loves to take charge and be proactive. When they're at their best, Aries men want to become the financial head of their family. They want to ensure that they are working independently to provide and care for the one they love to the best of their abilities.

What makes Aries men great husbands is that they take care of themselves first so that they can actually care for a partner. Sometimes this means that they'll avoid relationships and stay single for long periods of time before they feel like they're in the right place for marriage. However, they tend to be honest about where they are along their path and with their intentions, making them easy to trust and later upfront husbands. You usually don't have to play guessing games, as they'll lay out their cards for you straight on the table.

Leo: Carefree Nature

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Leo men usually have a carefree nature and are happy to do their own thing while letting their partner do theirs. They are easy to plan with and communicate with because they are just happy if you are happy. They're not the jealous type or the overprotective kind that needs you home by a certain time and feels the need to check your phone when you're not looking. The trusting and natural connection they build makes for healthy relationships where both partners are independent in their own ways but can unite in an equal partnership.

Leos are also known to be courageous. Their carefree nature allows them to take risks without overthinking the outcomes. They are likely to go out of their way to make the first moves and put in the effort. They will make their wives feel supported, protected, and lifted.

Virgo: Supportive And Thoughtout

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A Virgo man is husband material because he actually takes the time to think things through. He doesn't rush into relationships and commitments unless he truly feels that it is right. This means that once he chooses the woman he wants to marry, he becomes entirely loyal and dedicated to her. He's willing to work through the hard times and doesn't give up easily. He takes time during arguments to think of logical responses rather than fight in the heat of the moment.

Virgo men are good at providing validation and reminding their wives that they are loved and cared for. They take their hard work ethic with them in their relationships because they understand that love is a muscle that needs to be trained in order to keep functioning at a healthy level. When Virgo men make a promise, they keep it forever.

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Taurus: Protective Of The Heart

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​A Taurus man is both caring and loyal. He is the kind of husband who will always reassure you that he's on your team. He wants to face all your problems with you, not against you. You can count on him when you need support or even just a little help around the house. His reliability means that he always shows up, and remembers birthdays and anniversaries.

Taurus men have a great moral compass that easily guides them in their relationships. They hate to disappoint you so they go out of their way to make sure that you know how much they are trying to love you. Taurus is a romantic at heart, which makes him the ideal partner for a stable relationship that doesn't get comfortable and boring. From the moment he marries the woman he loves, he becomes protective of her heart

Cancer: A Lover Of Love

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Cancer men can't help but love everything about love. They can come off as needy but they are just craving to be loved the same intense, everything in, passionate way that they give love. They are emotional and sentimental making them some of the most romantic partners. They love to surprise their wives with flowers, or acts of service without being asked, just to see her smile at the end of the day.

They give a lot of affection and actually enjoy spending quality time with their wives. They are not confrontational and are great communicators. Marriages with them tend to be calm and patient because they don't let issues bottle up and talk calmly whenever there is an issue. They are genuinely kind and make caring partners.

Get Personal And Break The Cycle

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We don't blame you for being frustrated with dating but if you're struggling to find and keep a quality man click here to find out how to break the cycle. In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?

Love is more than just kisses and butterflies, it's much more than that. If you want to know more on what your birth chart reveals about how you love and what you need out of a partner, check out this personalized report based on date of birth.

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