Are You Listening To Fear Instead Of Intuition? These Are The Risks
The difference between fear and intuition is that one holds you back while the other one pushes you forward. Fear plays tricks on your mind and makes you resort to a fight or flight responses that could lead you to desperate situations and missed opportunities.
But, intuition doesn't always make sense. It's difficult to follow something that's not tangible, to act on a feeling rather than take the time to make sure it would actually serve you. Still, sometimes it's worth the risk. Here's how to tell which of the two is leading your life.
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You Make Decisions Based On Past Mistakes
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While it takes great wisdom to let the lessons from the mistakes of the past guide the better choices of the future, there is a difference between acting from experience and letting the past hold you back. When you make decisions based on the risk of repeating the same consequences, you risk holding yourself back from finding out if the lessons you learned are enough to lead to a different result.
You can make the same choice and receive different results based on how you make it. Let's say you moved once and it ended up being the wrong decision at the time, it doesn't mean that moving again will also be a bad experience when the life you are meant for could be waiting for you if you just took the risk again. The same thing happens every time you fall in love again.
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You Always Weigh Out The Cons
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It may seem like a good idea to prepare for the worst by thinking ahead of all the ways something could go wrong before it happens. However, that is also the best way to talk yourself out of almost anything. Guess what, there is always going to be a reason why you shouldn't. Maybe you shouldn't walk out the door today because you could maybe git hit by a car, but is that going to stop you? Sometimes, the pros should be reason enough to go through with choices.
Some of the best decisions are made on a whim or after taking big risks. Yes, there is the possibility of everything falling apart but with high risk comes high reward and you're never going to know which way it will go unless you actually try.
You Prefer Logic To Heart
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The heart is full of feelings, uncertainty, spontaneity, and intuition while the mind is full of rational thinking, justifications, calculations, preparation, and comfort. It's a lot easier to choose logic over heart when making decisions but the logical thing to do isn't always the right thing to do. Is it logical to go for the job you're passionate about instead of the desk cubicle that makes more money? Rationally no. But which one is going to actually lead you to a happier, more fulfilling life?
Even better, is anything about love logical? Is it logical to choose one human out of the millions out there and decide that's the person you give your most vulnerable self to? Not really, but it's one of the most rewarding experiences the heart can lead to.
You Keep Finding Yourself In The Same Cycles
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If you keep finding yourself living the same day over and over, or worse, ending up in the same toxic cycles time after time even when you've sworn off of them, then chances are you're far from aligning with your path. You're not allowing enough big changes to grow and guide yoursellf to your potential. The more you make scary decisions, the more you build yourself, the higher you vibrate, and the closer you get to your true purpose.
The only way to break the cycle is to take drastic enough action. Fear is only going to hold you back and let your whole life pass you only for you to wonder "what if' when it's already too late.
Your Stress Has Physical Symptoms
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What's really interesting about strong emotional responses like fear and the stress it releases is that your body will often be aware of it before your mind could catch up. If you're coming from a place of fear you might start to feel physically uneasy and not be able to identify the source right away.
This feeling could make you feel like you're overly tired, overwhelmed and losing your grip. The more you allow the fear to dictate your life over your intuition, the more stress you put on the body because you're basically forcing it to act against its better judgement. Listen to your gut, and let it guide you instead.
You Take Minimal Risks
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This is the factor that it always comes down to. Some people go their whole lives forgetting that the only person responsible for their happiness and progression is them. Not their mom, or their partner, or patience. The other important thing to remember is that while timing is everything there is also never going to be "good enough" time. Risks need to be taken in order to see change.
The more time you spend overthinking, the fewer risks you take. Rather, then ask yourself what the worst thing is that could happen, find out for yourself, Because either the reward will be completely worth it. Or, if it doesn't pay off you'll bounce back. But at least, you won't be in the same place that you are now, forever.
You Haven't Felt Truly Happy In A While
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Happiness is actually really simple. It's just about creating it. Happiness isn't about how much money you have, how good of a job title you hold, how many kids you brought into the world, or who you married. Happiness is about the decisions you make every day, that you will take responsibility for choosing only what speaks to you. Every decision is a choice between happiness and resentment, no matter how scary the choice may seem.
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