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Five Types Of Toxic Mothers Who Leave Invisible Scars On Their  Daughters

Not all scars are visible. Some hide deep inside, to the point where we might not even realize we have them till we suddenly feel their pain. We wonder why we are the way we are, unable to let ourselves be loved, or even unable to love in the capacity that we know we can. We realize that we're just protecting ourselves.

The way a mother loves their child will dictate the way that the child defines and understands love. This becomes their first contact with the concept and once they form it, whether it's good or bad, it can be really hard to change it as an adult. Here's how.

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The Controlling Mother

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​For some mothers, it was impossible to accept that mother does not know best simply because she is a mother. Yet, she used this statement over and over again to assert her word. It was her way or the highway and this meant a series of endless rules, many of which were a reflection of her own insecurities.

She convinced herself that she was protecting you and acting out of love but instead she made you resent her for never saying yes, for never trusting you, for never giving you the opportunity to experience the world and learn for yourself. She even at times tried to control your feelings in her complete refusal to recognize you as an independent person. Rather she saw you as an extension of herself and used that to justify why you must always do as she asks.

The Narcissistic Mother

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This mother somehow always found a way to make everything about herself. When you cried, she complained that you were tiring her out. When you needed a ride, she made sure you understood how much of an inconvenience you were to her. Even when you excelled, she pointed out that it was actually all thanks to her and what she provided for you. She was too busy worrying about herself that she never really got to know you.

Ironically, everyone else thought she was the perfect mother because that's how she made it look on the outside. Your feelings were always dismissed because she made others envious of appearances. She cared more about how others saw you than how you did.

The Mother Who Used You As Her Only Means Of Happiness

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No child should bear the burden of being their mother's only source of joy and pride. It is too much pressure to have the person you depend on, depend on you for their own selfish needs. This mother made her whole world revolve around her kid. There was no such thing as boundaries. She constantly needed attention and smothered you with hers.

There were times the roles were reversed and she was the one needing you to mother her, forcing you to grow up long before you were due. She did not know how to let you go and got angry at you for not reciprocating her emotional needs. She drained you and distorted your definition of love.

The Impossible To Please Mother

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​For this mother, nothing was good enough. No matter the achievement you proudly presented to her, it was downplayed and just expected. She saw how hard you worked but she never rewarded you for it. She thought that she was pushing you and that her tough love would motivate you to work even harder to really impress her but instead, you grew up thinking that you would never be good enough, not to her and not anyone.

Even when you tried to show her how much you love her, hoping she would show it back, she took it for granted and ignored your efforts. Children are programmed to need the approval of their mothers, and as an adult, you often still crave it simply because you never got it.

The Physically Present But Absent Minded Mother

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This mother was there all along, but she was never truly accessible. She was so caught up in her own world, maybe even her own pain that she failed to see how much you needed for her affection. She was emotionally distant making you feel like anything and everything was more of a priority than connecting with you. She often gave you fancy gifts as if they would make up for her lack of empathy.

As a child, you were confused, unable to understand your purpose in the world if your own mother could not give you the time of day. You might have even rebelled in an effort to get her attention, but it only drove her further away. Till this day you wonder how to be seen.

Are You Still Searching For Your Purpose

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Don't let the way your mother saw you, define you. After all she was just human.Who you are and you become is entirely up to you. In fact, it may be influenced by something much bigger than you. You won't believe what the science of Numerology can reveal about you.

The numerology of your birth date, regardless of what month you were born, can reveal surprising information about your personality. Unlock the messages hidden in your Personality Code now with your free personalized video report learn what Numerology says about your life using only your Birth Date.

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Do You Have The Letter V On Your Palm? This Is What It Means

Everyone has lines on their palms. Turn your hand around and take a look. Palmistry is the study of the meaning of these lines. It believes that each line is revealing about the life trajectory of the person who holds them. Some lines reveal personality traits while others predict levels of success and blessing. Some lines can even provide information on love and relationships. One particular revealing line is the letter V between the thumb and the index feeling. Here's how to find it and what it means.

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Right Hand Vs Left Hand

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When checking for the Letter V formation, check your non-dominant hand first as it will hold a more enhanced meaning. If you're right-handed, the left-hand lines will reveal your personality while the right-hand lines reveal the destiny of the path that you are on.

On the other hand (no pun intended), if you are left-handed, the right-hand lines will reveal your personality, while the left-hand lines will be the ones holding your destiny. Now, with your dominant hand in mind, let's examine the lines.

The Heart Line

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The heart line is one of the four lines that have the power to reveal emotions and relationships. Without knowing the person personally, it says a lot about who they love and how they love. Keep in mind that some people don't have a heart line and it shows. They have no interest in forming meaningful lasting connections and don't have natural empathy towards others. Their relationships often fail as they're unable to see past their own needs. Narcissists for example often are missing their heart line.

To find your heart line look for the top major line at the tap of your palm.

Are you still searching for your life purpose? You won't believe what the science of Numerology can reveal about you!

Do You Have The Letter V On Your Palm?

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If you are looking for the letter V on your right hand, you should be able to find it at the top Major Heart Line, near the bottom of your index finger. Now if you have it, you're in luck as it holds many qualities. Men and women with a “V” are thought to be very lucky in life and to find a lot of success.

The Letter V formation is considered to be very unique in Palmistry, so if you can find the Letter V on your palm, consider yourself luck as you are destined for a special life. ​

Unfinished Business

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It is said in palmistry that having this line means that there is a growth journey on your path. You will need to face some challenges, in order to achieve personal development. The silver lining is that going through these changes is meant to align you on a path designed to reach your highest self.

Until that path is reached and the growth is achieved, individuals with this line tend to have some "unfinished business." Luckily having this line also means being gifted with enhanced traits and characteristics that facilitate the process.

Blessed In Relationships

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Those who hold the "V" are known as the anchors of their relationships. They easily make friends and form strong bonds. They have a natural empathetic ability that makes them trustworthy. Having such positive relationship might have something to do with their success, genuine energy, fortune, and support. It gives them an in that allows them to advance easily in life and provides them with a supportive circle of friends.

In romantic relationships, these people get lucky but sometimes it takes a long time to find the person who fulfills them. Having this line means that you have a lot of impact on others. You're the one they come to lean on. You have great power and many wouldn't bear losing you.

Blessed In Luck

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On the one hand, having te letter "V' on your palm is indicative of many blessings ad brings good luck unto your life, not only for yourself but everyone you touch as well. However, in order to pish your growth, luck usually does not activate before you turn 35 years old.

This age is a turning point when you are meant to take all the lessons you've learned and use them to attract all the blessings that were always meant for you.

The Lines Come And Go

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In Palmistry, the hands hold information on certain parts of our being. The left hand is the “receptive hand,” it is tied to empathy and intuition and connects emotion and psychic energy, with nurturing capabilities. Then, the right hand is our “giving hand,” which is more on the side of the physical world, tying in the self with logic, action, reason, and ego.

Another thing to keep in mind is that palm lines are not fixed. They're bound to appear, disappear, and change throughout our life stages. if you're looking for personalized information, then you'll need your own zodiac reading. We're each on our own unique path,

Take a quick zodiac reading here to find out what your universe has to say about you right now. Understand your purpose and your potential so that you can take control of your emotions, your life, and your future by clicking HERE.