Relationships
Neonbrand / unsplash

Men Share The Red Flags That A Woman Was Just Using Them As A Warning

In today's dating the world it's not just the men that get played. In a lot of cases they're also the ones who get taken advantage of because they missed the warning signs that a woman was taking advantage of.

Some men decided that enough is enough and they decide to list the red flags on a Reddit threat as to hopefully help others notice them before it's late.

For personalized information on the kind of partner you are and that you attract, click HERE to learn what Numerology says about your personality using only your Name and Birth Date.

This article may contain affiliate links and/or offers from our affiliate partners. Clicking on a link and/or completing an offer may result in a portion of proceeds from each transaction being paid to https://www.higherperspectives.com/

It's Her Way Or The Highway

woman walking dog in the middle of the road in a dress

Tamar Bellis / Unspash

Whoever said happy wife, happy life, clearly didn't understand equality. The relationship shouldn't feel unbalanced and create unfair power dynamics. Both parties should be giving as much as they're receiving. If an unequal balance is created, the relationship is doomed to fail.

" In a good relationship, friendship, whatever, both people are giving what they want to give without coercion and both feel adequately rewarded for it. Sometimes one person needs more, sometimes the other, but it evens out over time. When you feel like you're being coerced into giving more than you really want, whether that's with force or emotional manipulation or whatever, you're being used and you'll eventually resent it." - munkymu / Reddit

Just Wants Some Attention

woman jumps on man's back

Carly Rae Hobbins / Unsplash

"When you eventually tell her how you feel and your desire to be in a relationship, she uses lines such as 'I'm just not ready yet' or 'maybe,' and you fool yourself into thinking that 'yet' is just around the corner, but it never is." - freshballpowder / Reddit

Be careful of women who just need someone else's validation to feed their ego. They usually are coming from a place of low self-esteem where they need to feel desired by someone, even if they have no interest in being with him, just to feel like they are worthy. These women need to find happiness within first before committing themselves to someone else.

Emotion Is Not Welcomed

couple holds hands by night window

A L FF / Unsplash

Some women need someone to vent to and assume their partner will have to listen to their complaints non-stop They want to completely unload on someone else yet they don't give their partner's issues any worth. Rather they dismiss their feelings any time they try to bring them up.

"Anytime you try opening up, you're acting off-character, selfish, an ass, etc. it's usually the typical pathetic manipulation people pull to make you feel bad for either standing up for yourself or just trying to be you." -CutTheShitNow / Reddit

Energy Vampires

blond woman with vampire eyes

Vitolda Klein / Unsplash

​"You should look that up, but basically selfish people that only care about themselves will unload all their emotions and problems onto you to feel better, but will never ever reciprocate because they feel their issues are important and don't view yours as important." Mugen593

Just like the name suggests these are the kind of women that leave you feeling drained. They suck all your energy out with their nagging and complaining and don't fill it back up with any kind of comfort or affection.

Do you want to learn a secret technique anyone can master that will make someone fall in love with you?

Preying On Vulnerabilities

couple sits on picnic blanket in the desert

Neonbrand / unsplash

Thankfully there are still some kind and generous men out there but sadly they often get taken advantage of. Some women are only looking for someone who will buy them nice gifts so that they don't have to do it themselves. While this is not the case for most women, be careful of those who claim gift-giving is their love language but never offer it in return.

"Givers: Be mindful of your limits because the takers don't have any." —corrado33

Lack Of Empathy

man hugs woman from behind as she poses for camera

JD Mason / Unsplash

"She often accused me of having no empathy, because I was very calm and level-headed, despite the fact that I work with disabled kids which requires a lot of empathy. She had no real concern for anyone unless it was to maintain [a] public image." —DrRonSimmons

Stay away from women who have not adapted to the evolving mentality that men are human beings who have feelings too... More and more women are embracing that for men to show emotion is a sign of strength and not weakness.

Just Needs A Therapist

woman sits beside man

Priscilla Du Preez / Unsplash

"Guys, if she only reaches out to you when she's hurt or vulnerable, she doesn't want YOU, she wants sympathy and knows you'll give it to her." —AlphaTangoFoxtrt

The type of women who do nothing but complain because they always seem to find themselves in trouble eventually run out of people who will listen to them or help them. So they end up having to get creative to find new outlets and people they think will fix their problems for them.

The Warning Signs Are Endless

red flags lined

Zachary Keimig / Unsplash

From emotional manipulation to using you to project all that she is angry about in the world, the ways that a woman could use her partner to fill her void and unhappiness are actually endless. In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?

Love is more than just kisses and butterflies, it's much more than that. If you want more personalized information on what your birth chart reveals about how you love and what you need out of a partner, check out this personalized report based on date of birth.

For more great relationship advice and tips on how to attain the kind of love you deserve, watch this video from expert, Amy North: Click Here To Watch The Full Video.

Uplifting

Father With Down Syndrome Raises Proud Doctor and Proves That Love Is Most Powerful Of All

Thanks to a viral video interview, Sader Issa has found a way to share with the world how his father's love transcended all other obstacles and made him the successful doctor that he is today. Despite being diagnosed with down Syndrome, this father never failed to fulfill his role and support his son.

Sader told the Syrian Society for Social Development all about being raised by his dad who has Down Syndrome, this is their inspirational story.

Sader's Childhood Was Just Like Any Other's

Sader with his parents as a baby

SSSD / Youtube

Sader was born, to a family that welcomed him, and wanted to spoil and love him. When he thinks back on his childhood, he reminisces on nothing but good and happy memories. He never once mentions being embarrassed by his father or thinking that his family was different. Instead, he remembered feeling very loved. In fact, his father would actually make the time to bond with him, spending time wrestling, thumb wrestling, among other games.

Luckily for the family, the community accepted them and even looked up to the love and peaceful bonds they all shared. To each other, and to the outside world, they were just another happy family, finding their strength in their love for one another.

Shame Was Replaced By Pride

Sader with his parents as a baby looking away

SSSD / Youtube

The beautiful thing about children, is that they are not born separating people into categories. They just long to love and be loved. Thinking someone is different or being ashamed for having a parent with a disability is only taught through society's conditioning. Sader isn’t ashamed of his father. He never was. Instead, he's proud because it's thanks to him that he is the man that he is today. Not only is he successful and healthy, but he also feels proud of the values he developed thanks to his family's upbringing.

Others are even envious of his ability to form meaningful and loving relationships, just like the one he shares with both of his parents. His father's condition was always a blessing, teaching him at a young age how to love strongly, and not cave into the negative thinking of others. He became independent, generous, and kind thanks to his experience of living so closely with someone who had Down Syndrome but defied the odds.

The Father And Son Duo Took Life On Together

Sader and his father wear matching polo shirts and smile at the camera

saderissa / Instagram

Sader didn't feel like his father was held back by his condition. In fact, the duo even used to work together at the wheat mill near their home to save for college. Sader's father was always committed to working hard and providing a secure and stable life for his son. He wanted him to study and follow his passion of becoming a doctor. His father never even expected anything in return.

“I’m proud of my father. Throughout my life he has been the greatest support for me when I needed it,"“I think I would’ve been much less excited about life and much less passionate with what I do if I didn’t have my special father,” explains Sader proudly.

Sader's Father Became A Role model

Sader's family sits outdoors smiling

saderissa / Instagram

There was something special about the way Sader's father always worked hard, exceeding expectations but never asking for anything in return. Seeing his son's happiness and success was enough for him. Now, seeing his son become a successful dentist is the best gift he could imagine.

“It’s possible to see when his eyes are filled with joy and satisfaction as if to express: yes, I have Down syndrome, but I raised this man and did everything in my power to make him become a doctor and help others.” says Sader.

The beautiful part is that Sader might have not become as successful if he didn't truly look up to his dad. He always saw him as a role model and a figure of perseverance, positivity, and determination. The way his father led his life, overcoming obstacles on a daily basis was not only inspiring to others but to Sader as well.​

The Power Of Love Is Unconditional

Sader poses with his dad

saderissa / Instagram

Sader's family hopes to raise awareness about the children of parents/ with Down Syndrome who love their children unconditionally. Researchers who studied parents who have children with Down Syndrome found that 99% of them reported loving their children, feeling proud and having a positive outlook on life because of their children. Just like any other parent, their priority is to make their child feel loved and live a happy life.

Sader hopes everyone can see that his father was just as capable as any other parent. "Let us give them a chance and see what great capabilities they have."

Unlock the messages hidden in your Personality Code now with your free personalized video report!

His Parent's Bond Is Never Fading

Sader poses with his parents at church

Sader Issa / Facebook

The loving relationship between Sader and his father is quite inspiring but so is the one between his father and mother who has been together for decades. Yet, according to Sader, their love is just as strong as the day they got married. They have an understanding of each other's needs and are able to meet in the middle.

They often go on walks together or just sit and talk for hours on end. They set an optimal example and standard for healthy relationships for their son.

All Stereotypes Can Be Broken

Sader with his fellow dentists

saderissa / Instagram

Today Sader is a high-paid dentist in Syria and he continues to live a life full of love and happiness which is in itself priceless. His father continues to show him off proudly telling people and m my son is a doctor” with a twinkle in his eyes. The family is continuing to prove to the world every day that love is more powerful than anything and that can be enough to break stereotypes and defy all odds.

Are you still searching for your life purpose? You won't believe what the science of Numerology can reveal about you.

The numerology of your birth date, regardless of what month you were born, can reveal surprising information about your personality.