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What Is Worse, A Bad Job Or A Bad Relationship? Here's How To Tell

You feel like the love is no longer there, the passion has faded, and the increasingly toxic relationship is leaving you drained...are we talking about your job or relationship? The answer could be both but that still leaves the question: which is worse?

No one takes a job or goes into a relationship expecting it to ruin their lives yet many end up there anyway. It comes to a point where they have to evaluate whether it's worth pushing through and trying anyway or whether the toll that each one is taking is too much too handle. We've assessed the factors that could help someone make that decision below.

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Both Are Draining, But Only One Is Essential

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The way that society is built, you need some sort of job to survive. It pays the bills, the more it pays it creates comfort and allows you to afford a lifestyle that brings you happiness. When a job becomes draining, the paycheque at the end of it can sometimes feel worth it.

A relationship on the other hand is a bonus. It can add to your life, give you a partner to share experiences with and it can feel fulfilling to love and be loved. However, you can survive and even still be happy without it. When you're in a bad relationship, there's no reward at the end. No one is paying if you push through. It leaves you drained and that's it.

A Job Has A Time Limit, Relationships Are Forever

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They say that the average person changes careers at least three times in their lifetime. No one expects you to stay in the same role forever. You're encouraged to try new things, acquire new skills, and move up the ladder. You often move from one job to a better job. You don't feel pressure going into a job thinking you're stuck with it forever.

On the other hand, no one gets into a relationship hoping that one day they'll break up. The intent when chosing a partner is chosing them forever. The best relationships are the ones where you grow old together and still love each other just the same. This means that when you're in a bad relationship, if nothing changes it'll just stay bad forever.

You Can Quit Both At Any Point, In Search For Another

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Here's the thing to consider when choosing which is worse, you never should feel "stuck" in either or because in reality, you can leave at any point. Yet, it's usually not that simple. When you leave a job as long as you have another one lined up you'll financially be fine. All you need is to write a letter of resignation, pack up your desk and go.

But with relationships, it's never that easy. First off you can't just have another one lined up and usually your lives are intertwined, and you need to pack up a lot more than just your desk. If you mix in shared kids and assets, the whole thing is a mess.

A Bad Relationship Follows You Home

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You technically can leave work at work when you go home. Maybe you'll still carry the stress of it but you don't need to work on it past a certain number of hours. A relationship, however, goes everywhere with you. If you're in an argument, your phone will blow up with texts, the issues will constantly be on your mind and you might even need to miss work in order to deal with home.

A bad relationship is there when you just need to relax, on a Sunday morning when you were hoping to sleep in, and you can't exactly make requests for time off from it.

Both Are Toxic To Self Esteem

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​Both toxic job environments and relationships will destroy you from the inside out. You'll keep wondering why you're not good enough to make them work until you truly start believing that it's all your fault. You'll internalize guilt simply because you keep getting blamed. You won't know how to see the light at the end of the tunnel because you'll end up gaslighting yourself that this is just how things are. You'll stand up for yourself less and less, and you'll love yourself less and less.

We say, both are equally destructive and you should release any and everything that does not serve you. After all you only get one life and as you read this sentence, more time is running out.

Sometimes It's One That Causes The Other

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Take it from someone who has been there: ​"I remember I had my first job and the first girlfriend around the same time and I went through a very bad patch through both of them.

She stayed in my life but the job didn't. I have chosen a different career path since then and look forward to changing myself to be a better man to her." - Siddhant Kashyap / Quora

We don't realize the impact of staying in one or the other. We might think that we're persevering but in reality, any kind of negative environment is bound to start dwindling down into all other aspects of life. If you're in a bad job, it's likely to impact your relationship, just like the reverse is also true.

How To Find The Answer

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In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them? Love is more than just kisses and butterflies, it's much more than that. If you want to know more on what your birth chart reveals about how you love and what you need out of a partner, check out this personalized report based on date of birth.

Yet if you're looking for a sign on whether you need a career change then you're here for a reason. This is your sign. Take a quick zodiac reading here to find out how you can take control of your career path and find an environment that helps you prosper ad fulfill your goals.

Find out how you can achieve your goals and reach your utmost potential, and get more information, HERE.

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The Four Zodiac Signs That Make The Best Husbands

Women give a lot of time and thought to their idea of the best husband. Most would agree that he must be caring, loyal, attentive, understanding, and independent. No woman is looking to marry a man-child who is just looking for someone to mother him while he contributes the bare minimum. The tricky part is that most men are skilled at charming women into thinking that they will give them the world only to later find out that this was nothing but a facade, an idea they presented but had no intention of maintaining.

Luckily astrology has shown that some signs hold traits and characteristics within their core that naturally give them an advantage. Their personalities hold the traits of the best husbands.

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Aries: A Man On An Honest Mission

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​Aries is the kind of man who steps up to the plate without waiting for an invitation. You don't need to ask him twice to take out the trash, because he loves to take charge and be proactive. When they're at their best, Aries men want to become the financial head of their family. They want to ensure that they are working independently to provide and care for the one they love to the best of their abilities.

What makes Aries men great husbands is that they take care of themselves first so that they can actually care for a partner. Sometimes this means that they'll avoid relationships and stay single for long periods of time before they feel like they're in the right place for marriage. However, they tend to be honest about where they are along their path and with their intentions, making them easy to trust and later upfront husbands. You usually don't have to play guessing games, as they'll lay out their cards for you straight on the table.

Leo: Carefree Nature

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Leo men usually have a carefree nature and are happy to do their own thing while letting their partner do theirs. They are easy to plan with and communicate with because they are just happy if you are happy. They're not the jealous type or the overprotective kind that needs you home by a certain time and feels the need to check your phone when you're not looking. The trusting and natural connection they build makes for healthy relationships where both partners are independent in their own ways but can unite in an equal partnership.

Leos are also known to be courageous. Their carefree nature allows them to take risks without overthinking the outcomes. They are likely to go out of their way to make the first moves and put in the effort. They will make their wives feel supported, protected, and lifted.

Virgo: Supportive And Thoughtout

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A Virgo man is husband material because he actually takes the time to think things through. He doesn't rush into relationships and commitments unless he truly feels that it is right. This means that once he chooses the woman he wants to marry, he becomes entirely loyal and dedicated to her. He's willing to work through the hard times and doesn't give up easily. He takes time during arguments to think of logical responses rather than fight in the heat of the moment.

Virgo men are good at providing validation and reminding their wives that they are loved and cared for. They take their hard work ethic with them in their relationships because they understand that love is a muscle that needs to be trained in order to keep functioning at a healthy level. When Virgo men make a promise, they keep it forever.

Take a quick zodiac reading here to find out what your universe has to say about you right now.

Taurus: Protective Of The Heart

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​A Taurus man is both caring and loyal. He is the kind of husband who will always reassure you that he's on your team. He wants to face all your problems with you, not against you. You can count on him when you need support or even just a little help around the house. His reliability means that he always shows up, and remembers birthdays and anniversaries.

Taurus men have a great moral compass that easily guides them in their relationships. They hate to disappoint you so they go out of their way to make sure that you know how much they are trying to love you. Taurus is a romantic at heart, which makes him the ideal partner for a stable relationship that doesn't get comfortable and boring. From the moment he marries the woman he loves, he becomes protective of her heart

Cancer: A Lover Of Love

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Cancer men can't help but love everything about love. They can come off as needy but they are just craving to be loved the same intense, everything in, passionate way that they give love. They are emotional and sentimental making them some of the most romantic partners. They love to surprise their wives with flowers, or acts of service without being asked, just to see her smile at the end of the day.

They give a lot of affection and actually enjoy spending quality time with their wives. They are not confrontational and are great communicators. Marriages with them tend to be calm and patient because they don't let issues bottle up and talk calmly whenever there is an issue. They are genuinely kind and make caring partners.

Get Personal And Break The Cycle

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We don't blame you for being frustrated with dating but if you're struggling to find and keep a quality man click here to find out how to break the cycle. In any relationship, always look at how you feel and ask yourself: does this person make you love yourself more? Do you want to grow old with them?

Love is more than just kisses and butterflies, it's much more than that. If you want to know more on what your birth chart reveals about how you love and what you need out of a partner, check out this personalized report based on date of birth.

For more great relationship advice and tips on how to attain the kind of love you deserve, watch this video from expert, Amy North: Click Here To Watch The Full Video.